Mediterranean sorrow as virus upends greeting rituals

MARSEILLE: To greet friends and acquaintances by kissing, hugging and shaking hands is considered part of the essence of Mediterranean identity.

But the coronavirus pandemic has put an abrupt end to such rituals with no indication of when it will be safe to resume them.

Fear of spreading the virus has upended traditions as close physical contact suddenly became dangerous, even lifethreatening.

Fisherman Daniel Reggio used to hail friends and colleagues with the traditional ‘bise’ or cheek-kissing when he bumped into them in the southern French port city of Marseille.

Since the spread of Covid19, he has resorted to elbowbumping.

“We can’t say we don’t miss it, but going without isn’t going to end friendship or complicity,” said Reggio, as he sold sea bream in Marseille’s historic Old Port area.

Pensioner Yvon Tapias organises walking tours in Marseille. He now greets people with the ‘Wuhan shake’, a foot greeting that harks back to the Chinese city where the novel coronavirus first appeared.

“We touch each other with our soles,” he said, pointing to the inside of his foot.

“People from the south need contact,” Tapias said.

In Tunisia, actor Mohamed Werdeni said the physical greetings were part of regional traditions.

“We like to kiss each other two, three, four times, depending on the region. It’s very weird to say hello like this now.”

Even men normally greet each other with the ‘bise’ in Marseille.

“It’s where I first kissed executives. I had never had the idea of kissing a banker before!” said the director of Marseille’s acclaimed Museum of Civilisations of Europe and the Mediterranean, Jean-Francois Chougnet, who arrived from Paris a few years ago.

Further west along the Mediterranean coast, people from Montpellier are even greater fans of the bise. Each greeting leads to three enthusiastic cheek kisses.

“We really miss it. It’s gutwrenching every time we have to stop ourselves,” student Melodie Ricaud said, adding that she now hesitates between a distant hand gesture and the Indian greeting ‘namaste’ where both hands are brought together in front of the chest.

Fatima Boulamaat, from Montpellier’s working-class area ‘Petit Bard’, no longer greets her friends with physical contact.

“I do the sign that my Moroccan grandmother did, with the right hand on the heart and an intense gaze so that they feel my affection,” she said.

Physical proximity is also an essential component of social interactions on the other side of the Mediterranean in Tunisia and Algeria.

“The physical relationship is very important in Algeria. We touch a lot, we’re very warm and expressive through our gestures,” said Nacer Djabi, professor of sociology at the University of Algiers.

“Hugging and kissing are a sign of kindness and acknowledgement,” added prominent Tunisian sociologist Mohamed Jouili. — AFP

— AFP photos Two men pose as they greet each other with their elbows in the Vieux Port of Marseille southern France.

Two men pose as they greet each other with their feet.

A man and a woman pose as they fist bump to greet each other.