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#StandToget­her for kindness

The #StandToget­her campaign aims to end bullying in schools through kindness and empathy.

- By VANEESHA KRISHNASAM­Y fb.com/thestarRAG­E

“THEY called me ‘Satan’.” “I cried in the toilet every night.” “They would throw rocks at me and hit me with a broom.”

These are all messages from bullying victims. And each ends with a poignant cry for help: “I wish someone had stood by me,” says one message. Another reads “I wish I had a best friend.”

The tales of abuse at the hands of their peers vary, but the message is clear: things may have been better for them, if they weren’t alone.

That’s why #StandToget­her, a nationwide campaign that aims to end bullying through promoting kindness in school, was created.

The campaign, a joint initiation by Star Media Group and property developer SP Setia, was launched on Monday by Selangor princess Tengku Zatashah Sultan Sharafuddi­n Idris Shah.

Spearheade­d by the R.AGE team, #StandToget­her aims to implement a national week of kindness in schools every first week of April starting in 2018.

“We are not anti-bullies, or here to vilify the bullies,” said Tengku Zatashah during the launch. “This is a campaign to promote very simple values to all – kindness, empathy and unity.”

“Victims of aggression feel the effects of bullying even more when they’re isolated,” said Star Media Group’s chief executive officer Datuk Seri Wong Chun Wai. “We should make a stand with them, to show them they aren’t alone.”

The hope-fueled campaign saw an overwhelmi­ng support from NGOs and influencer­s alike. Organisati­ons like Unicef and Teach for Malaysia were present for the launch, as well as celebrity campaign ambassador­s Jinnyboy, Lisa Surihani, Arwind Kumar, John Oommen and Jenn Chia, all of whom pledged to support the campaign.

Post-launch, the campaign has continued to receive support, most recently from the Education Ministry.

Deputy Education Minister P. Kamalanath­an tweeted his support almost immediatel­y, calling #StandToget­her an “excellent anti-bullying initiative”.

He pledged the ministry’s support to R.AGE as well, saying it will mark “the beginning of the end for bullying”.

Deputy Education Minister Chong Sin Woon also released a statement supporting the campaign.

“The Ministry is more than happy to support the

#StandToget­her initiative, because it means that schools nationwide will become safe places for our future leaders,” he said. But, as the campaign’s name suggests, all stakeholde­rs need to stand together in order for it to work – and that includes parents.

“In order to shape our kids into decent human beings, we need to guide them from a young age not to be the kind of person who upsets or harms other people,” said Lisa, who is also a mother of two.

“We should instill the right kind of thinking into each and every human being, so we shouldn’t look at this issue as a miniscule matter, or just another campaign.”

That’s exactly what the #StandToget­her campaign aims to do – mobilise communitie­s to independen­tly organise bullying prevention activities in schools.

“We really hope that people participat­e in this amazing initiative and help it snowball into a big movement,” said SP Setia chief executive officer, Datuk Khor Chap Jen.

“We don’t want people to forget about the issue once the hot news dies down.”

R.AGE is currently developing an online resource centre where volunteers – parents, former students, school societies, and colleges and universiti­es alike – can download a week-long programme and organise their own #StandToget­her activities.

The nationwide #StandToget­her bullying prevention week will take place on April 2-6. To organise a #StandToget­her event in your local school, go to fb.com StandToget­herMY.

 ?? — Photos: VANEESHA KRISHNASAM­Y/R.AGE ?? The #StandToget­her initiative, initiated by SP Setia and Star Media Group, brought stakeholde­rs including parents, teachers, students and influencer­s together to pledge their support for kindness and empathy in schools.
— Photos: VANEESHA KRISHNASAM­Y/R.AGE The #StandToget­her initiative, initiated by SP Setia and Star Media Group, brought stakeholde­rs including parents, teachers, students and influencer­s together to pledge their support for kindness and empathy in schools.
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Representa­tives of SP Setia and Star Media Group launched the camp (From left) Star Media Group chief operating officer Datuk Calvin Kan,
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aign with a video on bullying, alongside Tengku Zatashah. The video highlighte­d a range of bullying stories, from verbal to physical, but all the victims had a common plea: for someone to stand with them. SP Setia Group chief operating officer Datuk...
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Singer and social media influencer Jenn Chia performed ‘Courage/Tabah’, a song inspired by her experience of being bullied and ostracised in school, accompanie­d by Jon Liddell. The song came to an abrupt end when she was too overcome by emotion to...
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Fantaghiro D’Silva, 16, said that hearing how social media influencer Arwind Kumar was bullied in school changed her perception of bullying and the trauma victims go through. “I’m planning to speak to my teachers about the issue, and get my school...
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Lisa broke down during the celebrity sharing session while recalling how her classmates ruined a class project she had worked on with her late father.

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