A two-way street

PARENTS often neglect the importance of a positive relationship and effective communication with their child’s teacher.

A healthy relationship between parent and teacher leads to a better educational environment and experience for the child.

Communication with your child’s teacher does not necessarily have to be face-toface, as technology has given us many ways to establish and maintain a good relationship.

One of the best ways to build a strong parent-teacher relationship is to get more involved in your child’s education.

The first person to approach is undoubtedly your child’s homeroom teacher, who is responsible for monitoring your child’s overall performance and well-being.

Parent-teacher meetings are the main way for parents to get to know teachers and find out how their child is doing in school.

Let your child be part of the conversation if possible, as it may help him develop a habit of reflecting on his own progress and achievements.

Most schools offer other information channels that you can participate in such as parents’ seminars, the school’s website and social activities organised with families in mind.

Your involvement in your child’s education, especially by understanding how the school’s academic curriculum and modules work, may inspire you with new ideas to support and help him in his learning at home.

As for teachers, having more contact with parents help them better understand the unique situations and needs of every student.

Parental involvement may also shape a positive view of the teachers, resulting in improved morale among the latter, which will in turn be channelled back to the students.

Having the right system in place will improve students’ academic performance, behaviour in school and their motivation to learn.

Expectation and adaptation

It is only normal when parents and teachers have expectations of each other. While parents expect teachers to guide their child in learning, teachers expect the parents to support the learning at home too.

Hence, it is essential for them to thoroughly communicate their ideas so that both sides have a clear picture and understanding of their respective roles.

As your child grows older and becomes more independent, you will need to find the balance between being an overprotective and uninvolved parent.

This may mean directly discussing your child’s goals and issues faced in school with him instead of meeting the teacher every time a small issue arises.

That said, the occasional talks with teachers regarding your child’s well-being are still encouraged.

Most importantly, the best way to mould a happy and active learner is to create a supportive environment that values education at home.