Let children decide on their choice for tertiary education
THE decision to pursue tertiary education after SPM is not one to be taken lightly, especially considering the significant financial investment involved.
With the added complexities of the increasing cost of living, it’s understandable that parents may feel overwhelmed by the choices ahead.
As a parent to three boys, one of whom has just completed his SPM, I certainly am.
But it’s crucial to remember that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to further education. Each student’s journey is unique, shaped by their individual ambitions, capabilities and circumstances.
While some may go for prestigious top-tier institutions, others may find equal success and fulfilment in second-tier colleges or universities. What’s important is to recognise that there is no inherent superiority or inferiority in these choices; they are simply that – choices.
Whether a student attends a top-tier or second-tier institution, what ultimately matters is their dedication, hard work and commitment to their academic and personal growth.
The same goes with the selection of courses. From my own experience, I’ve come to realise that success in education (and life) is not solely determined by the institution’s reputation or prestige but rather by the effort and determination that the students put in.
Regardless of where and what they study, students have the opportunity to excel if they are willing to put in the work and seize the opportunities (particularly those outside the lecture halls) available to them.
Therefore, instead of succumbing to the pressure of choosing the “right” institution and courses, let us embrace the diversity of options available and encourage our children to follow their passions and interests.
Whether they pursue a degree in a top-tier university or a more affordable second-tier institution, what matters most is their commitment to completing their education as far as they can go, and their willingness to seize the opportunities that come their way.
The path to further education is never a linear one with clearcut answers.
Of course, it will be overwhelming and full of uncertainties. But as parents, we can commit to being part of our children’s journey by embracing this quote by the 13th century poet and Islamic scholar, Rumi: “As you start to walk on the way, the way appears.”