Wrap FROM THE REGIONS

Wedding rehearsals – yay or nay? Who better to ask than the celebrants who lead your wedding ceremony whether they believe rehearsals are still relevant or completely old school.

WANAKA AND QUEENSTOWN Stevie Woodwark

I think for a small, intimate wedding having no rehearsal can lead to some wonderful and candid moments. But sometimes for a big wedding I think having a rehearsal can ease the nerves. A ceremony with a lot of guests can be like a performance, with quite a few different people involved, each having their own roles to play. The rehearsal can make the day run a lot smoother, so the couple can enjoy just being in the moment.

QUEENSTOWN Philippa Thomas

Do I think they are necessary? Nope! They are often chaotic and busy and people don’t always listen to what’s being said and done. And as far as I’m concerned, nothing is so absolutely critical that it has to be rehearsed. However, if the couple wants a rehearsal, then I’ll be there for sure. They are an amazing chance to familiarise yourselves with the layout and how things might go on the day.

TASMAN REGION Fiona Dawson

I’d say Yay, although I always leave it up to my couples to decide. I love every chance I have to meet with them, especially on the final lead-up to their big day. It’s a great opportunity for them to get a better idea of what to expect and to help calm any nerves. A rehearsal allows a relaxed environment to give any last pieces of advice and answer any lingering questions they may have.

NORTH CANTERBURY Kineta Booker

I’m a definite no. They are simply not needed and a waste of everyone’s time – and fuel! Your wedding day isn’t a large-scale theatrical production after all. Celebrants who are great communicators already have a great rapport with their couples. They thrive on getting everything ready and catching up with everyone who is part of the wedding 30 minutes beforehand. I’ve never once regretted not having a rehearsal.

SOUTH CANTERBURY Jade Whaley

For large weddings, we practise the timing for walking down the aisle, holding the bouquets, where to stand, the presentation and exchange of rings. We run through the kiss, all enactments and poses for when the couple are pronounced married. We pay attention to the small details to ensure a smooth flow on the day. This way, everyone involved feels comfortable, confident and knows what's happening.

INVERCARGILL Sharyn Payne

I’m a Yay. You know why? Because some people need to have them. For me it’s so everyone is on the same page. It’s sorting out what happens before the bride arrives, where the groom and groomsmen stand, who walks down the aisle first, what happens when you sign the paperwork, the first kiss and walk out. It’s making sure that the couple are happy with where the celebrant stands. And it can ease nerves.