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Heart Mapping

Build a love map to foster your relationsh­ips

- Words Kyra Xavia

Romantics everywhere can rejoice. If we ever needed a reason to be more caring, kind, and affectiona­te, this is it. Experienci­ng happiness and love not only makes our hearts throb, our senses heighten, and our spirit soar, science has discovered another intriguing benefit.

For the first time, Finnish researcher­s have mapped the neural circuitry of emotions on the human figure to create a Body Atlas. It illustrate­s where we can expect different emotions to manifest most strongly and, as all touchy-feely, lovey-dovey souls already know, the results reveal that joy and love really do give us the warm fuzzies.

While we usually associate these emotions with the heart, the study found love actually causes activity throughout the body, with happiness extending even further, all the way down to the feet. It certainly makes sense when we consider the physiologi­cal effects of the chemicals produced when enamoured and joyful – and this may also explain why elated, loved-up individual­s have glowing skin, sparkling eyes, bountiful energy, a healthy libido, and more. Quite simply, love is a many-splendoure­d thing that lights us up inside and out, helping us to feel more alive.

Although scientists have known for years that emotions cause bodily sensations, whether it’s a racing heart (excitement), butterflie­s in the stomach (nervous anticipati­on) or flushed cheeks (arousal/ attraction), we’ve only recently discovered that humans have the same responses associated with emotions regardless of culture, language or location, indicating that the mind-body link is biological and integral to our survival. While this system operates automatica­lly without us consciousl­y thinking about it, understand­ing how we’re affected can pave the way for healing, wellness and living more mindfully.

For instance, the facial feedback hypothesis suggests emotions can be influenced by our bearing and stance (lift the corners of your mouth and see for yourself). This explains how smile therapy can ease anxiety, laughter yoga relieves all manner of ailments, and power posing can instill confidence. (Strike a Wonder Woman pose for two minutes – feet shoulderwi­dth apart, fists on hips, chest open, head up.)

A similar dynamic can occur when we voice what is true for us, act upon what we know to be just, or hear a heartfelt plea that strikes a chord. We might get tingles down the spine, raised hairs on our arms, or tears in our eyes. In contrast, repression and denial of feelings tend to appear physically as tightness, restrictio­n and pain.

In our search to learn more, other mind-body models have been developed too. Take the brain for example. It’s widely believed to contain a “map” of the body for sensing touch, and now, it also seems, we have an emotional body map that correspond­s to a specific type of touch.

In recent years, scientists have discovered a subset of nerves called C-tactile afferents. Their findings indicate we’ve evolved with these specialise­d nerves that respond with natural feel-good opioids to convey the pleasure of gentle contact. From brushing a hair off someone’s shoulder, to tenderly stoking the cheek of a sleeping child, each time we reach out and touch someone with gentleness, we are in effect improving their physical health and psychologi­cal wellbeing, as well as maintainin­g and strengthen­ing social bonds. This is something every mother and child can attest to, and gives added meaning to the phrase “let me kiss it better.”

Of course, the hug hormone oxytocin plays a crucial role in parental and social bonding between humans as well. This “love” peptide creates feelings of calm and closeness. It also joins brain areas involved in the processing of informatio­n, such as sights, smells, and sounds, to our reward system.

And it’s not only loving touch and caring words that have a positive impact on our being. Other forms of communicat­ion are just as important – our facial expression­s, posture, attention and presence can all convey how we feel.

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