Herald on Sunday

All in the royal family

All the fun’s to come for Lilibet, Archie and the young Cambridges, says

- Anna Tyzack

Little does Lilibet Diana Mountbatte­n-Windsor know how significan­t her arrival into the world is to three small children across the Atlantic. For, even when you’re royal, cousins are a competitiv­e sport.

It’ll be a while before Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis get to meet LA-born Lili, but the youngest Cambridges can now boast of having four cousins: Lili and older brother Archie, plus Pippa Middleton’s Arthur and Grace.

But as they gaze adoringly at photograph­s on the family WhatsApp, their father Prince William must be wondering what kind of relationsh­ip this next generation of royal cousins will forge.

Happily, the royals have a history of close cousin bonds, presumably because no one understand­s the madness of one’s own family quite like those inside it. William and Harry have always been good pals with Princess Anne’s children, Peter Phillips and Zara Tindall, who grew up near them in Gloucester­shire. They also count Prince Andrew’s daughters, Beatrice and Eugenie, as pseudo younger sisters. As a 7-yearold, William was photograph­ed pushing cousin Bea around in her pram.

The Queen’s biographer Matthew Dennison observes that “blood ties offer the surest guarantee of trust in a life in which little is private”. Perhaps this is why Prince Charles and Prince Edward both made their cousin Lady Sarah Chatto, Princess Margaret’s daughter, a godmother to one of their children, and the Queen counted three of her cousins as her closest friends and confidante­s: Margaret Rhodes, the daughter of her mother’s sister, Lady Mary BowesLyon; Princess Alexandra, the daughter of her uncle, Prince George, Duke of Kent; and Lady Mary Leveson Gower, the daughter of her mother’s eldest sister, Lady Rose Bowes-Lyon, with whom she used to play ponies as a child.

Surrounded by her cousins, the Queen, according to Dennison, felt she could unwind and be off duty. “Family members come closest to treating the Queen with any degree of normality,” he says. But the cosy cousin bonds within the Royal family also have a lot to do with the sizeable chunks of time they spend together — something Archie and Lili may miss out on.

Margaret Rhodes, who was one of the Queen’s bridesmaid­s, spent all her summer holidays with her at Balmoral and even lived with her at Buckingham Palace and Windsor Castle during World War II.

Prince William and Harry’s generation of royal cousins haven’t lived in such close quarters as this, but they’ve still had geography on their side, spending Christmase­s together at Sandringha­m, holidays at Balmoral and larking around at polo matches and parties in London and the Cotswolds. The little Sussexes, raised in Santa Barbara, will miss out on all these family occasions, as well as the starchier royal occasions such as Trooping of the Colour, where they would have bonded (in silence) with the rest of the royal “brat pack”.

There’ll also be none of the shared experience of royal duty among the Sussex-Cambridge cousins. Royal cousins tend to see it as their obligation to support the monarch and heirs — a back-scratching exercise: their loyalty and hard work in return for a royal property or two and an income. Margaret Rhodes, for example, lived on the Great Windsor Estate until her death in 2016; Princess Alexandra has use of a grace-and-favour apartment at St James’s Palace.

Even the York sisters, who aren’t officially working royals and thus don’t receive a salary from the royal household, are dutiful cousins, singing for their princess status by supporting the Queen, Prince Charles and Prince William at official events and being patrons of various charitable trusts. Without titles, or a royal income on the horizon, the Sussex children are unlikely to feel any degree of subservien­ce to Prince George and his siblings — one would imagine they’d sooner support their parents’ charitable endeavours in America than stuffy British institutio­ns.

This discrepanc­y in status, while galling for their parents Harry and Meghan, doesn’t mean, however, that the Sussexes won’t become good buddies with their titled cousins. The fact that Zara Tindall and Peter Phillips do not have titles — a choice made by their mother, the Princess Royal — has never affected their relationsh­ip with William and Harry. In fact, the “normcore” cousins have always provided a hit of ordinarine­ss for the princes, exposing them to a down-to-earth, horsey social scene in Gloucester­shire that they wouldn’t otherwise have encountere­d.

As semi-outsiders, Tindall — who is Prince George’s godmother — and Phillips are grounded confidante­s, who will quickly step in to bring their princely cousins down a peg if they get above themselves. Their children — Peter has two with ex-wife Autumn Phillips, and Zara has three — see it as their duty to do the same to the younger Cambridges. At a polo match a few summers ago, Phillips’ daughter Savannah was told off by her mother for pushing Prince George down a slope.

Being raised in La La Land, it’s unlikely Archie and Lili will be able to offer a similar degree of normality — or any normality at all — but they’ll introduce their British cousins to the California­n way of life. Young George, Charlotte and Louis may yet enjoy sun-soaked days by the pool with Hollywood royalty, while getting a feel for Harry and Meghan’s approach to public service. Their teenage nights out in LA with Archie and Lili will be straight out of Clueless, but they’ll find their cousins are clued-up when it comes to mindfulnes­s and the most secluded SoCal beaches.

Meanwhile, for the young Sussexes, holidays in England with the Cambridge cousins will provide a fascinatin­g window into the world they would have lived if their parents hadn’t jumped ship: neverendin­g church services wearing Sunday best, pony club and prep school pranks — Prince William terrified his cousins Bea and Eugenie one Easter by biting the head off a sugar mouse.

They’ll have their resilience tested on windswept Norfolk beaches and wintry walks at Anmer Hall and, as teenagers, George will haul them off to Prince Harry’s old Chelsea drinking dens on the King’s Road, perhaps with Eugenie’s son August and Beatrice’s yet-to-be-born sprog.

The question is, who will lead whom astray — the Cambridges from Kensington or the Sussexes from

Santa Barbara? Anyone who watched the adaption of Nancy Mitford’s The Pursuit of Love will know this is the whole point of a cousin.

Prince William recently opened up about an incident when he and Peter Phillips herded Zara into a lamppost, earning themselves a ticking off from the Queen. “We were chasing Zara around, who was on a go-cart,” he explained on a Sky documentar­y.

“The lamppost came down and nearly squashed her, and I remember my grandmothe­r being the first person out at Balmoral running across the lawn in her kilt.”

With a generation of transatlan­tic royal grandchild­ren to contend with, Prince Charles will have his work cut out.

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 ?? Photos / Supplied, The Duchess of Cambridge via Getty Images ?? Clockwise from main photo: Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh pose with their great grandchild­ren, from left: Prince George, Prince Louis being held by the Queen, Savannah Phillips (standing at rear), Princess Charlotte, Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, Isla Phillips holding Lena Tindall, and Mia Tindall; Above: Archie Mountbatte­n-Windsor and Dad Harry; Left: Prince William with his cousins Peter and Zara Phillips.
Photos / Supplied, The Duchess of Cambridge via Getty Images Clockwise from main photo: Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh pose with their great grandchild­ren, from left: Prince George, Prince Louis being held by the Queen, Savannah Phillips (standing at rear), Princess Charlotte, Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, Isla Phillips holding Lena Tindall, and Mia Tindall; Above: Archie Mountbatte­n-Windsor and Dad Harry; Left: Prince William with his cousins Peter and Zara Phillips.

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