At mainly music, some songs and rhymes involve props. Sometimes those props are given to everyone. Other times, props are distributed to children who come to the front. Children loathe being left out. The goal is to develop a team player. Persevere in the process of teaching your child. Describe the activity happening. Help your child to appreciate the moment, reminding them that turn-taking is good. And when your child is selected, rather than take photos, make eye contact and smile.