Napier Courier

Must-have book for families

- Jill Nicholas

Being aDistanceS­onor Daughter— ABookfor all Generation­s ByHelen EllisMA, Distance Families Publishing, $38

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In this global age there aremany with children living in far-flung countries. Anthropolo­gist Helen Ellis' Being ADistant

Grandparen­t, published last year, was the ideal handbook for those whoare separated by oceans ad seas. BeingADist­ance Son or Daughter, subtitled ABook For All Generation­s, is its welcome sequel. It brings into perspectiv­e what' s relevant to those of that generation when the one above it is far away and howthis affects both.

Ellis is an authority on the subject. She's a distant parent and grandparen­t with children elsewhere in the world.

Her words, and those of others whohave contribute­d to this thoughtful­ly collatedwo­rk, are based on factual background details and soundcommo­nsense.

Wise counsel is offered onhow best to navigate the hurdles adult children's chosen locations have created; be they geographic­al or emotional.

Differing time zonesmean communicat­ion is one of the first stumbling blocks encountere­d. Once conquered, others become apparent. Ellis provides insight into the forms these take and provides the encouragem­ent to cope.

For any family with memberswho choose to live overseas, mine included, Ellis' books are a must have. —

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