BY MY SIDE

Eight ways to ensure your bridesmaids are as thrilled as you are to be in the spotlight

one

Discuss your expectations around time and financial contributions at the outset so nothing comes as a surprise, bearing in mind your attendants’ budgets.

two

Have refreshments and snacks on hand to keep spirits high before the ceremony and during your portrait session.

three

If you want expert hair and makeup for your girls, budget for it yourself, or choose a look they can easily achieve themselves.

four

Do your bridesmaids know each other? If not, organise a dinner or day out to break the ice.

five

Before you ask them to hand-make 150 origami favours, consider their skills and other commitments to be sure they’re up to the task.

six

One shape rarely suits all. To keep a consistent look, invite your girls to choose their own dresses with a uniform shade in mind.

seven

Dress them suitably. Think block heels for a lawn ceremony and sunnies and SPF on a summer’s day.

eight

Say thank you – and often. An on-the-day gift is lovely, but a card (or email) to express appreciation during the build-up goes a long way.

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