The Hen’s Party
How to navigate it and what you should do.
While hen’s parties are meant to be fun, they often bring up a bunch of ‘ what ifs’ and potentially awkward situations for you as the bride. Of course, you want it to be a day you enjoy, so before the planning begins, run through this list with the girls – just in case...
WHAT TO DO FIRST
Research ideas for a hen’s party you would enjoy, then if asked you can steer the situation in your favour.
HOW TO BRING IT UP
Use friends’ past hen’s parties as examples: “Being pulled up on stage like Katie was, in front of 100 people at that strip show, is genuinely my worst nightmare.” Follow up by mentioning some of your alternative, preferred options.
POSSIBLE ROADBLOCK
Your hen’s party organisers have already made plans and are refusing to let you in on them. In this situation, honesty is the best policy, advises Mary. “Tell them that having a surprise element to your hen’s party is causing you stress, and you’d prefer to know what’s going on.” Your friends’ main goal is to ensure you have a great time – knowing your wishes from the outset means they can make it happen.