Heartfelt gifts (some are free!)

Write a poem. You don’t need to be a poet – just think of your mum and have fun. If you need help, go online and have it written for you.

Too easy. Then you can send the poem with a card, print it out and frame it, or recite it to her over the phone. Try mothersdaycelebration.com for ideas.

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Create together. Enjoy a bonding experience, whether you co-create a meal or book into a workshop that’s not only lots of fun but also leaves you with something to show for it. Think watercolours, weaving, macramé and more.

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Surprise her. Mothers are traditionally very good at putting their needs and desires last, so here’s a chance to turn the tables. Spoil her with a treat you know she’ll love. It could be a manicure, a voucher to attend a class she wants to try or a new outfit.

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Make an album. Photos are a beautiful way to share precious memories and when they’re in an album, the enjoyment lasts forever. Don’t have time to physically compile one? Just select your pics and create a photo book at snapfish.co.nz

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Treat her to dinner. If you’re not able to be with your mother in person, how about treating her and your dad, her partner or a friend to a lovely meal out? Once you’ve booked and paid for the restaurant in advance, she’ll have no excuse but to go and enjoy herself!

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Speak from your heart. It sounds so simple, but when was the last time you told your mum how much you love and appreciate her? It’s easy to think she already knows, but we promise she never gets tired of hearing it.

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Share the day. Block out the day in your calendar and plan to spend it with your mother. Get her to do the same. You could watch a movie, relax and talk, go for a picnic... let her decide the activity or just hang out together and go with the flow.

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Listen up. Mums are good at listening, but how often does she get the chance to tell her story? Be all ears and give her your undivided attention. If gems of family history come

up, record her story to share with others.

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Do it together. Get your walking shoes ready and invite Mum to do the same. Stroll and talk along her favourite route, or surprise her with a ramble on a path that’s new to you both. Even better if there are great views and a café for a cuppa at the end!

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Clean the house. Sending your mum home to a clean house is like sending her away to a resort. You could DIY or take her out for a leisurely lunch while a professional cleaner does their thing.