Get the par-tea started!

Afternoon tea and the tradition of enjoying a formal tea service with sandwiches, scones and pastries with friends is a recipe for a good time. If you’re attending an afternoon tea or hosting your own, follow these etiquette rules:

DRESS FOR THE OCCASION A little bit of dressing up is required for afternoon tea. Leave the athleisure and trackpants in the wardrobe, and make an effort with your appearance with a smart/ causal look.

ARRIVE ON TIME If you are invited to a high tea, arrive on time. This shows respect for the host and allows the tea to proceed on schedule.

WAIT FOR EVERYONE Never start eating until everyone has been served, unless your host tells you not to wait.

START FROM THE BOTTOM If your afternoon tea is served on a tiered tray, always start from the bottom. It’s also polite to move through the tiers together when dining with others – don’t race ahead.

USE YOUR MANNERS Use proper table manners, including keeping your napkin on your lap and not talking with your mouth full.

USE POLITE CONVERSATION Use polite conversation and avoid controversial or sensitive topics. Keep the conversation light and enjoyable.

USE YOUR FINGERS Although it may seem rude not to eat with cutlery, eating with your fingers is encouraged.

PINKIES DOWN Contrary to popular opinion, raising your pinky as you drink tea is widely considered a no-no. To hold a teacup properly, experts recommend pinching your thumb and index finger together through the handle and supporting the cup with your middle finger, keeping your elbow down.