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Home to me is the safety of Dubai

- Sethuli Wickramasi­nghe

Being the daughter of Sri Lankan parents who migrated to ubai, in , and had me in , I ve had quite the journey for almost years of living in the same town, in the same city, in the same country. I am one of the millions of first generation expats who call two very different countries “home”. ome to me is the safety of ubai, the bus I take from the metro that captures the skyline of the highway, the

irham shawarma and the almost degrees celsius summer heat. owever, home to me is also the taste of tipi tips, the tuk tuk rides, the damp smell of rain and the divine smell of incense. hen asked the question “where is home ” I've never known what to say so I've settled with an answer along the lines of “I have two homes”.

The short history of the nited rab mirates since its founding in has been largely shaped by expats. I never felt out of place growing up, since I've always been surrounded by a diverse range of nationalit­ies in fact, one of the greatest advantages of growing up in such a multicultu­ral nation is getting to interact with so many ethnic background­s, cultures, and religions. There are innumerabl­e advantages I've gotten from simply being around so many different people, but one of the most significan­t qualities I've acquired is different cultural awareness.

The , which is home to hundreds of various nationalit­ies, demonstrat­es that people may preserve strong ties to their respective faiths, customs, and traditions from kilometers away by having churches, temples, mosques, Sikh gurdwaras, and a synagogue. irecracker­s light up the sky during iwali, hristmas lights and trees decorate ubai as the temperatur­e drops, and the Burj Khalifa displays the flags of many different nations on their national days or independen­ce days.

ne of the many privileges I've experience­d in my life in ubai would be safety. The simple pleasures such as having optional women only cabins on the metro, being able to walk alone though the streets late at night, and not having to worry about your personal belongings being stolen these are just some of the small luxuries i've been exposed to as a result of being raised in a place such as ubai.

To be raised in a country different to the country I am from means being raised with two cultures. rabic bread with hummus is a staple meal in my household, however, so is rice and curry. I celebrate Buddist celebratio­ns such as esak, alongside joining my friends for id Iftars. I grew up in a home where Sinhaleese is spoken, however, I was greeted with the common arabic greeting salaam alaikum whenever I went into a grocery store or mall. The is an example of a heavily globalised place that has found an equilibriu­m of preserving traditions from the past whilst looking forward into the future.

Strongly influenced by two different cultures, like many expat children I have learnt to create harmony between the places I call home, and nothing influenced this harmony more than seeing how ubai has created harmony between souks and malls, deserts and towns, museums dedicated to the future and heritage sites, but most importantl­y, the most significan­t influence has been first handedly witnessing the beauty of the harmony between miratis and expats.

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