‘I still bar my door at night’

The Grey Lynn peeping Tom, Moana Tekawa, who recorded women undressing and couples having sex, was jailed yesterday for three years and six months. One victim tells the Herald how such offending affected her.

Yesterday a 45-year-old man known as the “Grey Lynn peeping Tom” was sentenced to jail for videoing numerous women in Auckland. I have been spied on. It is difficult to describe the feeling of having your privacy completely violated. We’re always warned to watch out for strangers when we’re alone.

Rarely do you think something could happen to you in the safety of your own home.

At the time I was flatting in an old Grey Lynn villa. The windows were high and opened wide, covered by spindly bamboo blinds. I came to hate those blinds.

I was lounging on my bed videocalling my friend, wearing pyjama shorts and a T-shirt in the muggy heat of an Auckland summer night. My friend was overseas and during our hour-long call I’d given her a full rundown of everything that was happening in my life.

After I hung up, my French flatmate burst through my door in a fluster, yelling “a man, a man” and frantically pointed at my open bedroom windows.

Realisation set in and a chill spread across my body.

She’d seen “the man” as she was walking to the front door; their eyes met before he took off, running down the side of the house.

Breathless, I called my mum, the Auckland Central Police Station and eventually 111.

The police arrived, they brought a dog. The dog scampered around the side of the house looking for a scent but came up with nothing.

One cop checked my window and doors, coming to the conclusion that yes, the blinds were crap and yes, the old house was very easy to break into.

The policeman told me I should have called them sooner, gave me his cell phone number (in case of an emergency) and told me to have a drink and calm down.

In broken English my flatmate tried to describe the man to the police. She said he looked like a “Kiwi man”. It was almost funny — except that it wasn’t. She said he had a phone and couldn’t tell if he was filming.

The police left soon after. I thought about begging them to stay.

I’ve never felt more on-edge than I did in the months to come. I didn’t feel safe anywhere, at the supermarket, at the gym. I constantly felt like I was being watched. I would run from the house to get to my car, made barricades with furniture in front of my bedroom door and covered the windows at all times.

I barely slept and counted the hours until I could go to work, where it was card access only and there was a security guard downstairs.

The Grey Lynn peeping Tom tormented several women before being caught. Now he has been sentenced. I’m pleased to know he can’t make any more women feel this way or escalate his behaviour into worse crime.

But women are always the victims of these kinds of crimes, and many more. No matter what you do to try and protect yourself.

The sad thing is I still catch myself glancing outside my bedroom window and barricading my bedroom door at night.