Triplets coming home without their mum
Everything was ready for the eagerly awaited babies, then tragedy struck
Chervonne Magaoa was looking forward to bringing her triplets home. Their room was ready with new clothes, blankets and even dressers labelled with each of her new sons’ names.
But no one would have thought the boys would be coming home without their mother. The New Zealand-born 34-year-old died shortly after giving birth.
Magaoa, who was born in Hastings but raised in Hawaii, arrived at the Kapi’olani Medical Centre for Women and Children last Thursday for her weekly appointment, when things suddenly went wrong.
Her father, Bishop Hyran Smith, took her that day as her husband, Martin Magaoa, continued to work to ensure they had as much money as they could get, given the triplets’ September 6 due date was just around the corner.
Speaking from the hospital yesterday, Smith told the Herald the day had started off as normal.
“Usually, the appointment takes 30 minutes. But it ended up being longer.”
Doctors informed Magaoa and Smith she would need to have the babies that day, by emergency caesarean. She asked her father if he could pick up her husband and then get her 6-year-old son, Tanner, who was at school.
Unknown to Smith, who left to collect his son-in-law, Martin Magaoa was already on his way to the hospital. Smith would miss the birth of the triplets — and the moment his daughter took her final breath.
“By 5.30pm, the babies were born. Everything was fine and then she got a complication.
“She had an amniotic fluid embolism and that was her cause of death. The doctor said statisticswise, it only happens to one in 100,000 [women], so it was a rare event,” Smith said.
Amniotic fluid, which surrounds a baby in the uterus during pregnancy, contains products such as cells, hair, urine and secretions from the babies. It can cause serious reactions if it enters a mother’s bloodstream, including heart failure and uncontrollable bleeding. In New Zealand it kills about two mothers
a year. Smith said that by the time he returned to the hospital, his daughter had died.
“My daughter-in-law, who got here before me, as soon as she saw me she came jumping out of the car, crying. That’s when I found out.”
The family are now preparing a funeral service to be held on Saturday (local time).
Relatives from New Zealand are expected, including those from Bridge Pa, Hawke’s Bay, where Smith is from and where he and his late wife, Barbara Jean, and their eldest children lived for a while in the 1980s.
They are also rallying to support Magaoa’s husband and his task of taking care of his four young sons: Tanner and the newborn triplets, Aayden, Blaise and Carson.
Smith said his son-in-law was coping okay, but the family acknowledged how difficult this will be for him and have set up a gofundme fundraising page.
“I got to talk in church today and I said: ‘ Well, they say it takes a village to raise a child. But with these three kids, we need more than the village.’”
The couple met while at Brigham Young University’s Hawaiian campus and married in 2007.
They had struggled to have children and were elated when eldest son Tanner was born, but wanted to give him a sibling. Magaoa underwent IVF treatment and became pregnant.
“She had a hard time having babies. She and her husband had tried for quite a while to have babies and now that they had triplets, she didn’t want to lose them.
“She was very healthy and she really wanted those babies. She had to keep her feet up, she had to eat good. She had everything lined up for the babies, she even had dressers with their names on them.” Martin Magaoa paid tribute to his wife in a poignant message yesterday, part of which he wrote on behalf of his triplets. “This is for you, my sweet babe. Your three baby boys are healthy and progressing as each day goes by. You would have been so proud to see and hold your treasures truly gifted from God. Your sacrifice and love for them is amazing. Your life lives on in them. “Love you, mommy. Aayden, Blaise and Carson.”