Devon Conway: A friend, animal lover and terrible golfer
He was late to my wedding and he kept me up all night thanks to his debut test hundred at Lord’s. If I think about it, I couldn’t be happier for him.
Ben Strang
If you’re a groomsman at a wedding, you’re not supposed to turn up four hours late, are you?
As a mate, you’re not supposed to keep your friends up all night, fretting, freaking out, chomping at fingernails, wondering if you’re going to survive the night, are you?
I’m asking, because Devon Conway’s doing my head in.
But maybe that’s just the fact I’ve barely slept these past few days.
You see the above statements lack any real context, so maybe this will help you get your head around why Conway is more than just a special cricketer.
When Devon and his fiancee, Kim. arrived in New Zealand in September 2017, my partner, Courtney, and I had also just arrived back in New Zealand, after I’d spent a stint playing cricket in the United Kingdom.
Devon’s first training session with Victoria University of Wellington cricket club was also my first training session with the club, and as the new boys, we struck up an almost instant friendship.
I knew nothing of Devon at that first training.
When he padded up and walked into the indoor nets at Scots College, he immediately looked a class above.
In any sport, an athlete that looks like they have time stands out, and in that training, it was as if Devon had the keys to the DeLorean.
Now just because he excels at cricket doesn’t mean he’s good at everything.
It’s no secret that Devon’s chipping golf game is miserable at times, but often saved by a frankly miraculous putting game.
The number of times the game is on the line, on the final couple of holes, and he rolls home a 10 or 15 metre putt is beyond belief. But I can exclusively reveal he’s terrible at Jenga, so the man is human.
It’s actually his humanity which makes him such a great man and great friend.
You probably see him in his media rounds, and I make fun of him for it. He will have notched another big score but will never talk about himself. He’s always team first.
Whenever we talk, he genuinely cares about how I’m doing.
He always asks about my partner, about my dog. Heck, when he and Kim come around for dinner, he probably spends more time with our animals than us.
He has a huge amount of empathy, that shines through, even at Lord’s.
Some athletes have this public persona — Kiwis love a humble athlete who works hard and leaves it all on the pitch — but in private, they’re different.
I was once a sports reporter, so I know far too many of them to count.
Conway is as he seems. He’s genuine. He’s the real deal. And he’s one helluva mate.
It’s those qualities I admire, more even than his batting. I want the nice guy to finish first, for a change.
And I suppose I forgive him for those first two points earlier.
He was late to my wedding because he was winning the Super Smash final, and he kept me up all night thanks to his debut test century at Lord’s.
If I think about it, I couldn’t be happier for him.