VOWS IN VEGAS
After 70 years as the ‘wedding capital of the world’, the glittering city that attracts thousands of couples seeking unconventional nuptials has grown beyond the drive-through ceremony, writes Sadiba Hasan
Las Vegas has long been a stage where reality dissolves into fantasy. In the heart of the desert — a place where the Eiffel Tower, Egyptian pyramids and medieval castles all beam on one glamorous strip — the entertainment is virtually unlimited. It’s no wonder, then, that a city built on the promise of pleasure and escape has remained a popular destination for weddings.
According to the clerk of Clark County, Nevada, about 80,000 couples exchanged wedding vows in Las Vegas in 2022, including celebrities: Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker, and Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck. Clark County issued its five millionth marriage licence in 2022.
On September 23, Las Vegas celebrated its 70th anniversary as the “wedding capital of the world”. It was first recognised as such in the Daily Herald of London in 1953, the same year that Frank Sinatra began performing at the Sands Hotel and Casino, which bolstered the city’s popularity as a tourist destination.
And the city is undergoing a lot of change. There is a new 6.1km Formula One Grand Prix track, along with the Sphere, a performance venue covered in 1.2 million LED screens that is the home to U2’s 25-show residency.
Las Vegas weddings have been immortalised in movies like Viva
Las Vegas and The Hangover. Earlier boldfaced names were also married there: Sinatra and Mia Farrow in 1966 and Elvis Presley and Priscilla Beaulieu in 1967.
According to the Las Vegas Convention and Visitors Authority, total spending in the region’s tourism industry hit almost US$80 billion ($136 billion) in 2022; the wedding industry was responsible for US$2.5 billion of that, said the Clark County clerk’s office.
There are about 100 chapels and about 18,000 people who work in the weddings industry, the office said.
The city became popular for quick and easy weddings in 1931, when Clark County eliminated blood tests and waiting periods that had been required of couples trying to get married.
Las Vegas also marketed itself as a short hop away from Los Angeles — a four-hour drive or a 45-minute plane ride — which helped its draw as a celebrity hot spot, said Lynn Goya, the Clark County clerk.
“The focus is really on the couple rather than on a big production wedding that frankly makes people crazy,” Goya said. Elopements have become increasingly popular in recent years, with many couples opting for more intimate wedding experiences.
Most Vegas weddings are elopements, according to Goya, because of the prevalence of the casual, no-frills, 15-minute ceremonies offered by chapels — the bread and butter of the industry. A marriage licence costs US$102, and chapel packages are as low as US$99.
In 1991, the wedding drivethru window was born at A Little White Wedding Chapel after the chapel’s founder, Charolette Richards, noticed that disabled guests struggled to get out of their cars to attend ceremonies. In the 90s, themed weddings started becoming popular. Commonly requested themes include Gothic, Elvis and Star Trek weddings. The city is also home to grand and elaborate weddings, hosted at casinos and venues on the Strip. (Custom wedding packages at the Bellagio start at US$35,000.) “We’ve had people ride in on elephants, if that’s what you want,” Goya said. “You can hire Cirque du Soleil or Bruno Mars to sing at your wedding, if that’s what you want. It’s happened.”
She added that the Clark County Marriage Licence Bureau, which issues about 219 licences a day, is open from 8am to midnight, 365 days a year. Many chapels are also open until midnight, with no appointment required, making it easy for couples to grab their licence, make a quick stop at a chapel and then celebrate on the Strip.
The Office of Civil Marriages is a short drive from the Strip. There, on a Thursday afternoon in September, a couple from Los Angeles — Pei Lin, a 24-year-old student, and Min Gjia, a 28-year-old taxi driver — were holding hands after getting married.
It was Lin’s first time in Las Vegas, and the couple’s parents, who had travelled from Guangzhou, China, had joined them. Lin said she and Gjia got married in Las Vegas because “it’s romantic”.
When asked what their plans were that night, she shouted, “Strip club!”
The office is just one option for a speedy wedding. Along Las Vegas Boulevard, chapels include Chapel of the Flowers and A Little White Wedding Chapel, where Lopez and Affleck were married.
Later that day, at Chapel of the Flowers, Wendy Louise Hudson, a 48-year-old administrative assistant, walked down the aisle in a backless white gown and Converse Chucks while Steve John Moran, a 50-year-old information technology product manager, waited at the altar, teary-eyed. They had been in a relationship for 10 years, after reconnecting on Facebook 23 years after they met as teenagers at an ice-skating rink in Yorkshire, England, where they live.
“If we got married back home, we probably would have spent 10 times as much money, and you spend the rest of the time pleasing the guests,” Moran said. “We wanted it to be for us.”
After the wedding, the couple headed back to their room at New York-New York Hotel and Casino to drop off their marriage certificate.
They then went to the Skyfall Lounge in their wedding clothes.
“Part of me wants to get this off because I’m not somebody to be looked at,” Moran said, pointing at his suit. But Hudson was excited to wander around the Strip in her sneakers and wedding
‘We’ve had people ride in on elephants if that’s what you want. You can hire Cirque du Soleil, or Bruno Mars to sing at your wedding ... it’s happened.’ — Lynn Goya
dress. “We’re not really party people,” he said.
She added, with a whisper, “But tonight, we’re going to party.”
On a Friday afternoon in September, Ron DeCar, dressed as Elvis, burst through the doors of Viva Las Vegas Weddings, a chapel on Las Vegas Boulevard, in a pink Cadillac, shrouded by a billow of smoke, singing That’s All Right. A couple sat in the back seat, holding hands and smiling.
DeCar has been an entertainer in Las Vegas since 1981. When he started doing Elvis weddings in the mid-90s, he said, he knew of only one other Elvis impersonator who officiated at weddings.
DeCar estimated he does about 150 to 200 Elvis weddings a month: “He’s part of the Las Vegas identity.”
Brian Mills, the president of the Las Vegas Wedding Chamber of Commerce and lead minister at Little Church of the West, said that about 15 per cent of the 2500 weddings he officiates each year are Elvis weddings. He has worn his hair slicked back, like Elvis, every day since 2006.
When asked if he ever gets sick of Elvis weddings, he said, “Absolutely not. My voice and my hair bought me my house.”
On a Friday night in September, Mills was exhausted. He was officiating his 16th wedding that day. He had on an Elvis costume with a glittering gold jacket.
Cristina Chitel, who renewed her vows with David Chitel in front of their two sons, walked out of the chapel after the ceremony. Before stepping into her limo, she turned to Mills and said, “Thank you so much, Elvis. What’s your real name, Elvis?” “Brian,” he said, and they shook hands.
“We don’t always have the time for the best customer service, but when we do, it’s great,” he said later.
The next morning, he packed a duffel bag with his speaker and officiated a vows renewal in front of the “Welcome to Fabulous Las Vegas” sign. Onlookers, who were standing in a long line to take their pictures in front of the sign, recorded the scene: an Elvis impersonator singing Can’t Help Falling in Love in front of a slow-dancing couple.
Among those waiting was another couple who had renewed their vows earlier that day at Graceland Church, with an Elvis officiant. Lynn Haygood, a 60-year-old interior designer, and David Haygood, a 58-year-old computer networker, met 25 years ago in Raleigh, North Carolina, when he bought a couch from her furniture store. “When you come to Vegas, it’s the thing to do — to have a wedding done by Elvis,” he said. “We’re big fans,” she added. They saw U2 perform at the Sphere that night.
While the quick, cheap and intimate chapel wedding is still flourishing in Las Vegas, there are other options available, including non-traditional venues, elegant venues and sports-themed weddings.
The Neon Museum, which tells the history of Las Vegas through old building signage, hosts 200 weddings a year.
Pamela Jarrin, a 37-year-old blogger, and Stan Cichy, a 43-year-old construction company owner, married at the museum in front of a sign that reads “Lady Luck”.
The sign had advertised a hotel that closed down in 2006, and at the centre there is a big red heart. Forty guests travelled from Ecuador, where Jarrin’s family is from, and Milford, Connecticut, where the couple live.
Jarrin said that while searching for venues in Las Vegas, they mostly saw chapels and casinos. “We knew that was not us,” she said. “I feel like I’m the edgy one; I wanted to make it different,” she said, pointing at the pink streaks in her hair. Part of the reason they came to Vegas to get married is because of Cichy’s love of gambling. But they also wanted their family to make a kid-free vacation out of it.
Not all Las Vegas weddings are quirky and kitschy. Kathryn Scrivener, a 27-year-old firefighter, and KaLeigh Horelica, a 30-year-old photographer, wanted a “classy wedding”, Horelica said. They wanted “Vegas glam”.
The couple wed at the Bellagio in front of 100 guests on a Saturday evening in September. The ceremony was held in a courtyard, tucked away from the hotel’s grand casino and adorned with pink, red and white floral arrangements. A string quartet played Thinking Out Loud by Ed Sheeran. The couple, from Abilene, Texas, said they had a difficult time finding a venue in Texas welcoming to LGBTQ couples. But when talking to vendors in Las Vegas, that wasn’t an issue. They also wanted a destination wedding, and Las Vegas was the most accessible and affordable option. They went to various shows throughout the wedding weekend with their guests, including O by Cirque du Soleil.
“The energy of Vegas has really set the tone for our events,” Horelica said. “The lights, the energy of the Strip and the colours,” Scrivener added. Since Las Vegas snatched the Raiders football team from Oakland, California, four years ago, the city has been positioning itself as a sports hub. It’s an update that involves sports stadiums, Super Bowl LVIII and Formula One. Weddings are part of the plan. Tori Lindsay, a 28-year-old customer experience manager, and Nick Brendel, a 27-year-old shipment manager, got married at the pit stop of one of their favourite drivers, Kevin Harvick, during a Nascar race.
They wore fire suits — hers had a skirt attachment — and were married in nine seconds. Their parents and his brother cheered them on in the stands.
They played some blackjack, saw a hockey game, walked up and down the Strip, and soaked in the action as newlyweds.
“I love that city,” Brendel said.
“It’s like an adult theme park dropped in the middle of the desert.”