I HAD TWINS & CANCER

Now she credits her babies for pulling her through

Hugging her boisterous bubs, new mum Portia France gives little hint of a harrowing cancer scare that overshadowed her pregnancy and saw her undergo a major operation before her darling twins were even born.

In fact, the Auckland mum of Harrison and Matisse – now eight months old and motoring around on all fours – is counting her blessings, saying if it wasn’t for motherhood, a potentially deadly bowel disease may have continued growing unnoticed until it was too late. It’s only been weeks since her latest surgery and scars on her body are still healing, but the primary school teacher, who has gone through so much in the past year, is searching for words when she talks about being named the winner of the Woman’sDay and Vivo Most Inspiring Mum competition. “I feel like I don’t deserve it,” she says. “I’m just a mum doing her best. I never thought I was an inspiring mum. All mums are inspiring and I have great role models – both family and friends – who do what they can for their kids. I feel very privileged.” But for mother-in-law Lyn France, 65, who has watched Portia fighting for her life, winning the title is well deserved. “I’ve never seen her sad,” says Lyn. “Portia just gets on well with everything. You just look at her looking at

the babies and there’s so much love, and the babies love her. She’s inspirational!”

But Portia, 40, insists, “I’ve only been able to do it because of the love and support I’ve got from family and friends. People cooking, cleaning my house, looking after the babies and looking after me.”

The past year has been a rollercoaster for the Te Atatu mum, who is married to journalist Marvin, 35. After discovering she was pregnant in January 2018, and sailing through the first trimester, Portia recalls the initial golden glow of pregnancy quickly faded as she struggled to keep anything down.

Repeated trips to the hospital in late March saw her violent illness dismissed as morning sickness, until one doctor noted an unusual lack of bowel movements.

“They did an MRI scan and that’s when they found the tumour,” recalls Portia. “I had emergency surgery on the same day. They didn’t think it was bowel cancer because I was so young and I didn’t have the typical symptoms.”

With her belly swelling as the fraternal twins grew, Portia was given a stoma – an artificial opening to her colon – in the side of her stomach.

Despite the harrowing ordeal her body had gone through, the babies arrived

by Caesarean at 38 weeks on August 27, without any drama.

“They were fine,” says a relieved Portia. “The pregnancy throughout was not an issue and their growth was on track. I just had the side issue of bowel cancer. I was positive and always thought, ‘We can get through this.’ Knowing the kids were fine helped.”

Lyn, a devoted reader of Woman’sDay, tells us she’s in awe of how the brave mum-to-be handled the situation.

“As a result of her operation, she had to have a stoma put in, which has been very uncomfortable, but I have never once heard her complain,” Lyn wrote in her compelling nomination. “She had an unknown future until the birth of the babies, when she could have scans and X-rays to find out what was happening with the cancer. Throughout all this, Portia kept up a positive view on life.”

The cancer has been determined as “sporadic” and not hereditary, and Portia says CAT scans and a colonoscopy have since come back clear, but she will continue to have annual checks, adding that surgeons were confident at the time they had cut it all out.

After her most recent operation, to reconnect her colon, Portia is still smiling, even though doing basic tasks for her active tots remains difficult.

“I can’t lift the babies, which is so hard,” Portia tells. “They come crawling up to you, wanting a cuddle from their mum, so I’ve had someone with me every day to help manage them.”

But while recovery is slow, Portia knows starting a family was the best decision she has ever made – and probably saved her life.

“I’m lucky it was found early,” she concludes. “I’m lucky I didn’t need chemo, I’m lucky I’ve got a great medical team and I’m lucky I’ve got great people around me. Being positive, knowing that it was going to be alright, got me through it.”