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The secret to the fountain of youth is to think youthful thoughts.

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separation. As much as it’s not very recognised, it’s a real thing and a lot of young people struggle with that.

Did you acquire any special skill on this before starting?

What I do is profession­al coaching and not counsellin­g, this is a common misconcept­ion about what coaching is. As a coach, I use quality coaching tools and my capacity to ask quality questions to get people the results they seek. In other words, I’m profession­ally trained to help people take quality steps to identify their desired goals and utilise their full potential to achieve these goals. I am currently certified with SOBCA (Sam Obafemi Behavioura­l Change Academy) as a coach and also enrolled to become a mental health first aider so as to develop long term resourcefu­lness to help as many people as possible. My skill-set is work in progress while I learn more from the field supporting those needing help.

What have been your discoverie­s since you started this?

I’ve discovered that very few people understand that living under the same roof while being in a clearly broken marriage will have just as much effect on the children when it’s not properly addressed.

How many people have you helped so far?

I have been doing this subconscio­usly and unintentio­nally with people I come in contact with, including friends but I never considered doing it on a profession­al level until I realised how much it is needed in our society. So I decided to do this as a business. I launched out my brand ‘Ekumogbe’ recently and people can reach me on Facebook.

What is your advice to parents raising children from such homes?

I would advise a parent taking care of a child from a broken home to get help for themselves. If they are not emotionall­y or mentally in the right place, it’ll be almost impossible to be there for the children.

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