The Guardian (Nigeria)

Re- I Am In Love With My Best Friend

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IHAVE been there myself (still there actually), so I know exactly what you are feeling. I am not sure if cuddling at sleepovers is best friend behaviour, or it isn’t with mine anyway.

My advice to you would be to accept that he is with his girlfriend, unless he has given you ample reason to doubt how he feels about her, because loving someone you cannot have is painful, even more so if you are close with them and they aren’t single.

If he has indicated that he has feelings for you, then you should tell him, but otherwise, I wouldn’t.

If you do in the latter situation, then it will add stress and strain on your relationsh­ip with your best friend, and you may lose what you have with him. Women seeking relationsh­ip/marriage

A Muslim, in her mid 30s, self-employed, needs a Muslim man, in his mid 40s and must be a working class. Contact professor of love on 0703294412­3.

A matured lady, physically challenged, needs a mature and understand­ing man to settle with. Contact professor of love on 0703294412­3.

A mature, working class lady, from Delta State, 49 years of age, needs a mature, responsibl­e man, working class and 50 years and above, preferably based around Ikorodu, Ogijo precisely. Contact the professor of love on 0703294412­3, for my details.

Men seeking relationsh­ip/marriage

Guy, mature, self-employed, needs a mature working class lady, between the ages of 27 and above for a discrete relationsh­ip. Contact me on 0703429643­1.

Man, 50 years of age, a widower or a woman, who has never been married, between the ages of 40 and above. Contact the professor of love on 0703294412­3 for my details.

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