Please I Need Advice

IAM a 49-year-old divorced lady. Four months ago, I met this cool man in a get together party. We met several times for casual drinks and dinners before forming a relationship.

We now meet up most nights from Monday to Friday and really enjo y each other’s company. He goes somewhere else every weekend.

I was a bit suspicious that he might be married and when I asked him few weeks ago, he was very forthcoming and admitted that whilst he is unmarried, he has been in a long-term relationship with someone for the past eight years. He apologised for his deceit and explained that he has a partner, though not legally married, since he was betrayed by his ex. This partner, according to him, though they love each other, but she has a debilitating illness and that they have been virtually estranged for years and have not had a sexual relationship for a very long time.

He said he does not love her anymore, but feels responsible for her. She lives in a house he bought some time ago and he pities her state of health and cannot just abandon her like that.

I love him and I dream of a fantastic future with him, but I believe he needs to face up to his responsibilities and be accountable for the situation he has found himself. My first marriage ended very badly and it took a lot of courage to get involved in a relationship again and I feel I need to thread carefully for fear of losing him. Any advice would be welcome. with him?

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