EDITOR’S NOTE

Motherhood, biologically or otherwise, is such a beautiful gift, but for some women, being a mother, for whatever reason, isn't in their books.

I've heard people pass comments like ‘how can you not want to be a mother?' For me, while I believe motherhood is a blessing, it is more important to be prepared mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially. The second a child comes into this world, everything about them becomes your responsibility. They know right from wrong by watching your every move; while also depending on you for many forms of support.

Singer, Simi, who also happens to be the only female judge on the panel of the ongoing reality music show, Nigerian Idol, knows all about this. As a new mum, the maternal love bug has bitten her so hard that everything she does revolves around her daughter.

But Simi isn't the only one in this week's issue who also has the mummy love bug. Managing Director and CEO of NSIA Insurance, Nigeria, Ebele Nwachukwu, shares an uplifting story of her long wait to become a mother. For her, being a hands-on mum and also a hands-on CEO comes with its price. Read the inspiring story of her and her husband's more than a decade-long wait to become parents, criticisms she faced from other women who asked her to leave work and focus on getting pregnant, and how she navigates through being a mum, wife, and CEO.

Happy Mothering Sunday, everyone!

It is commonplace to spank a child when they misbehave – well, in Nigeria, at least- however, spanking can also be sexually stimulating for some people. Downtown confidential writer, Tilewa Kazeem narrates just what spanking did, or should I say, didn't do for him.

Sophia Edisi discusses feminism from her point of view while Bolu, our movie review writer, as usual, evaluates the latest movie releases in the cinema and on Netflix.

I am excited to announce that we will be having our first Guest Editor in April –that's next week. I'll give you a clue; the person who worked in branding is now the biggest name in men's fashion in Nigeria. Still wondering who?