I Love Growing Older, But I’ll Never Grow Old.

Ionce saw a card that read, “what age would you be if you didn’t know what age you were ?” I have often pondered on that question, especially when I found myself in situations I assumed would be better if only I were either older or younger. This week’s cover personality, Chief Jonathan Boytie Ogufere, got me thinking about it again. A 90-year-old man with the charisma, wit and gait of one much younger and a razor-sharp memory to crown it all. You would be impressed too. Now before I continue, here’s a little backstory. Before now, I had always been one who freaked out at the thought of getting old.

At just 22, I convinced myself that I had several wrinkles. I panicked and started my journey with anti-ageing skincare, pursuing society’s unrealistic beauty and ageing standards. I remember waking up on my 30th birthday feeling all nervous and flustered. Thankfully as I approach 40, my life experiences have reshaped my thoughts, and I have finally become comfortable with the idea of growing older. As a matter of fact, I looked forward to each birthday celebration with joy. Like the tiger’s stripes, I finally understood that growing older was a badge of honour meant to be worn with pride. I love growing older, but at the same time, I know I will never grow old. Nobody grows old merely by years. We grow old when we stop living. Years may wrinkle the skin, but giving up your zest for life crushes the soul. And that’s really what’s most important. It doesn’t matter if you are eighteen or eighty; there is in every human being’s heart the lure of wonder, a child-like appetite for what’s next, and the joy of living. There is a wireless station at the centre of your heart, and as long as it receives messages of beauty, hope, joy, courage and power, you will remain forever young.

What age would you be if you didn’t know what age you were? Have you ever asked yourself that question? I have heard people say they feel old at just 28 and then also met 60-year-olds who are so full of life and radiate youth.

Growing up is a privilege and

Konye beautiful experience, and I hope that, just like I have, we all embrace it and cherish it for what it is - life’s greatest gift.