Oman Daily Observer

Sky is not the limit...

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The world celebrated the women on earth on March 8. Across the globe in various countries women of all walks would have taken a moment to enjoy and others wondering what the joy is all about. After all it was the challenge of being a woman that was faced once upon a time that brought about this day.

This year’s theme of Internatio­nal Women’s Day is #Choosetoch­allenge. It indicates that a “challenged world is an alert world, and from challenge comes change”.

It is hard to exist without challenges but we can improve ourselves constantly to prepare ourselves to face the difficulti­es. It all eventually adds up to be part of our experience.

In one of the interviews with the late Shaikh Khalfan al Esry, Life Coach and Islamic Scholar, he said to me that to overcome challenges all we have to do is to accept the situation and the solutions will follow. But most of the time we are so busy channellin­g all our energy on complainin­g about the situation that we neither have the energy nor the time to think and act upon the solutions. “Accept the problem, suddenly you will notice it has become small’’, he had said.

Circumstan­ces might make one a victim, but the important factor is to get up and create a new identity for oneself first. It might be a difficult journey of healing but that is where it helps. Accept that there is a problem and you will have enough solutions and inspiratio­ns to move on.

The limitation­s for women in the modern world need only exist in her mind. The sky is not the limit. Today women have gone beyond the sky and onto the space, but what can limit us is the boundary of our mind some of it could have been created by the upbringing — family and the society.

One cannot remain to be a victim because life is not about existing but it is also about thriving and enjoying the very gift of existence. The more one continues to be in the victim syndrome the more opportunit­ies are lost. The true faith is when we believe in a better tomorrow. Somewhere in life we tend to lose the excitement of being alive going through mundane moments day after day.

On the occasion of the Internatio­nal Women’s Day on Note It, a programme from Oman Daily Observer (on the social media) we spoke to Dr Amira Raidan, Head of Mental Health, Noncommuni­cable Diseases Department at the Ministry of Health, and this is what she had to say — break the routine and have the resilience to adapt new ways and means. Boost your energy she says and thoughts alone will not do, ensure that you eat the right food, exercise, become part of group activities. Take time to recharge and reset goals.

Maybe holidays are not just for travelling to holiday destinatio­ns but actually to travel to the most beautiful place in each of our lives — our mind. It is each individual’s right to have peace in their life and it can only be possible if the mind is happy. Dr Amira urged to move away from negative friends, because it is easy to lose ourselves but to bring ourselves up takes effort.

Interestin­gly she said compliment others and it is a lovely thought because not only are you making the other person feel appreciate­d, but you also are able to learn from them through observatio­n at the same time have you noticed the happiness experience­d when we compliment others?

Most importantl­y let us accept ourselves and not reject who we are. If your aims are high do not feel dejected let us develop ourselves to reach there.

The best gifts to give and take are respect and dignity.

IT IS HARD TO EXIST WITHOUT CHALLENGES BUT WE CAN IMPROVE OURSELVES CONSTANTLY TO PREPARE OURSELVES TO FACE THE DIFFICULTI­ES

The Black Caps shuffled their batting order, showed faith in part-time bowlers, and displayed tactical flexibilit­y to prevail 3-2 over Australia and make it five wins from as many home series this season

WELLINGTON: New Zealand beat Australia in the Twenty20 series to maintain their perfect home season on Sunday in a timely boost for Kane Williamson’s team who will get two opportunit­ies this year to shed their status as the game’s perennial bridesmaid­s.

The Black Caps shuffled their batting order, showed faith in part-time bowlers, and displayed tactical flexibilit­y to prevail 3-2 over Australia and make it five wins from as many home series this season.

The win is all the more significan­t because they will be chasing their maiden Twenty20 World Cup title in India later this year. New Zealand have never won a major global title, losing the last two 50-over World Cup finals and never reaching the World Twenty20 final.

Eight players, including Williamson, are set to miss the home Twenty20 series against Bangladesh to play in the Indian Premier League (IPL) which begins on April 9.

The team hope to benefit from their experience and head coach Gary Stead believes the forced rejigging will give him a better idea of their strength in depth ahead of the World Cup.

“If it works out that there will be some players that we don’t play because they’re going to the IPL, the good thing for us is you’re considerin­g who might be in an extended squad that goes to the World Cup,” Stead told www.stuff. co.nz.

New Zealand Cricket is hopeful the top players can jump the queue and receive COVID-19 vaccines before leaving for India and later England, the website said.

Williamson’s team will also be competing for the highest honour in the game’s longest format having reached the final of the inaugural World Test Championsh­ip against India in June.

New Zealand will return to England two years after losing the 2019 ODI World Cup on boundary count after a Super Over in an extraordin­ary tied final against the hosts at Lord’s.

A two-test series against England should be a perfect preparatio­n for the New Zealanders before they take on Virat Kohli’s India in the WTC final at the home of cricket starting on June 18.

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