A mother's guide to teaching your child how to create art
One of the best ways to encourage a child's creativity is to provide them with opportunities to create art
Art is a universal language enjoyed by all ages, offering a means of selfexpression, communication, and exploration. For children, it's a fun, creative tool for learning and growth. Artist Mellanny "Melai" Arguzon-aquino finds creating art with your child a delightful but "messy" bonding experience.
Melai is a printmaker specializing in rubbercut and mokuhanga (Japanese woodcut printing). She was with the Industrial Design Department of De La Salle College of Saint Benilde since 2008 and also taught in St. Scholastica’s College under the Fine Arts Department, as well as at the Southville International School under the Multimedia Department.
Melai is currently working towards a fulltime art practice while teaching part-time in Philippine Women’s University under the School of Fine Arts and Design.
With such a busy schedule, how can this busy mother bond with her son, Chord? Why, by teaching him art, of course.
The Manila Bulletin had a chance to chat with this mother/artist/teacher. We asked her the importance of fostering creativity with your child, and how such a busy parent can still find time to bond with her kid.
As a mother, artist, and educator, how do you balance it all?
To be honest, it’s a constant struggle. I don't think I have it all perfectly balanced. There are times when I have to prioritize certain things and let others take a back seat. The key is being honest with myself and being clear about my priorities. For me, it's essential to put God first and begin each day with prayer or devotion. It sets the pace for the rest of the day.
Also, we intentionally don't have a helper or yaya. I am only able to create and teach because I have the support of my husband and my mother-in-law.
Any tips on introducing children into the world of arts?
Take your children to museums, art fairs, and support local art. Also, lead by example. When Chord sees me making art and creating things, it sparks his interest to try it too. I am also mindful of allowing him to express himself in his own way through his creations. As an artist and creative educator, I sometimes catch myself wanting to influence his artistic expression according to my own preferences. I want his unique "voice" to shine through his creations, no matter the medium. For Chord, it's painting, drawing, and sculpting clay.
When your child shows you their artwork, instead of asking what it is (which might make them feel bad), encourage them to tell you more about their work. Ask them to explain the story behind the art or share their creative process with you. This will show them that you value their artistic expression and will foster meaningful conversations about their creativity.
How do you find the experience of creating art with your child?
Oh, it's messy but fun! We recently participated in Prints Made in May, an annual social media event that takes place every first Saturday of May. Chord was able to design, carve, and print on his own with minimal supervision from me. I'm a proud Pinoy Printmaker mama.
Do you encourage mothers to engage in creative activities with their kids?
Yes, please do. It's a fun bonding experience. It can be messy, and it won't be perfect, but what matters most during these early years is that your child enjoys the artistic process. We aim to raise children who can think creatively, regardless of the career path they choose. Creating art is food to the soul.