Philippine Daily Inquirer

Forgiving

- By Bishop Precioso D. Cantillas, SDB, DD

ASKING FORGIVENES­S AND FORGIVING ARE ESSENTIAL parts of our life as mortals. Jesus, our Savior, taught us to ask the Father to forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us. In our relationsh­ip with God and others, then, we need to humble ourselves and implore the Almighty for His mercy on us; likewise, we also need to stoop down to those who may have wronged us, and offer our forgiving hands to them. Having and nurturing this forgiving attitude then is necessary in our life. I think that our experience in work and at work, teaches us how to ask forgivenes­s and to be forgiving to others.

While reason tells us that we need to work in order to eat, faith in God makes us accept the burden of having to work as expiation for our sins; as our share in the redemptive work of Christ, who suffered and died on the cross in obedience to the will of the Father to save us. The worker then, who believes, will approach his work as part of his plea for God's mercy on him. Keeping such humble attitude before God as the worker goes to work, will impact greatly and positively on the performanc­e of the worker at his job. Expectedly, the worker will do his best to make his work as a convincing proof of his sorrow for sins and his desire to be at peace with God. Work then, gives the worker a great opportunit­y to merit God's favor and mercy. Consequent­ly, the worker will find it easy to ask his boss or his co-workers forgivenes­s if and when he causes them wrong.

Work and all its punishing demands somehow inflicts on us some hurts, which we need to "forgive". We can complain and be forever unwelcomin­g of work and the hardships it imposes on us. But, such negative attitude towards work will not help us and keep us healthy. We need to be kind and forgiving to our work, co-workers, and even our bosses, if we want to enjoy the goodness and happiness in life which God our Father has gifted us with.

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