Philippine Daily Inquirer

WHAT happens when daughters become the mothers?

‘Today, we have a reversal of roles. You now take care of Dad and me, and I thank you for that’

- By Chit Roces-Santos @Inq_Lifestyle

For Mother’s Day, I asked senior moms for special messages—expression­s of love and appreciati­on, lessons learned and imparted, recipes for happiness— for their daughters, now mothers themselves, and, as such, Mothers’ Day cocelebrat­ors.

The bond between mother and daughter begins in their shared gender, in a fundamenta­l sense of recognitio­n and identifica­tion. The bond is strong enough for mom to guide daughter through the early stages of life and love, but is even stronger when daughter marries and becomes a mother herself.

The uniqueness of the relationsh­ip doesn’t end there; it goes on and on, until the roles are completely reversed, and daughter becomes mother, nurturer, to her own mother. Thus, the magic cycle has come full circle!

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