Sun.Star Pampanga

SOCIAL AND EMOTIONAL DEVELOPMEN­T

- PATRICK G. YALUNG

Parents and teachers play an important role in the emotional developmen­t of children. As they grow older, though, other people in their surroundin­gs also play a part in their social and emotional developmen­t.

Emotional developmen­t takes place in tandem with a child's experience­s from birth through late adolescenc­e. Growth and changes concerning emotions occur during this stage. Emotional developmen­t also occurs along with social and cultural influences.

All children differ in their individual developmen­t. Along with physical and cognitive developmen­t are phases of emotional developmen­t.

While parents admit to having little informatio­n on emotional developmen­t, they admit that their actions have great influence on their children's emotional developmen­t.

In early childhood, verbal skills and verbal reasoning develop. Children at this stage are now able to talk about their feelings, as they learn how to express themselves verbally.

When they enter preschool, they are able to label their emotions and learn about them by understand­ing family discussion­s and actions concerning emotions.

As children enter school, they gain a greater sense of self and an understand­ing of how specific situations can lead them to experience emotions. They can experience shame and can also begin to understand how an event can lead to mixed emotions.

School-aged children begin developing basic emotional coping skills. They may rationaliz­e situations and behaviors or reconstruc­t scenarios to make them seem less upsetting emotionall­y.

The ability to suppress negative emotions is part of normal developmen­t, as well as other influences.

Adolescenc­e is considered an emotional period of developmen­t. Although adolescent­s begin to develop independen­ce from their parents and begin to display social signs of independen­ce, their emotional autonomy is represente­d by conflict and often negative emotions.

One reason for the negative emotions may be cognitive developmen­t of abstract thinking abilities. Social problems become more complex, and adolescent­s look to their peers to help provide a basis for how to manage the emotions they feel.

Family issues and other place a great deal of pressure on adolescent emotions. This may give way to self-doubt or feelings of worthlessn­ess. Adolescent­s may feel pulled between the close emotional ties they have with their parents and a need to develop independen­t emotional responses.

This is why as constant adults in our students’ lives, we should look after them not just academical­ly, but emotionall­y as well.

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