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Snatchings

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She stressed that responsibl­e parenthood is the moral value of the agency's program.

"What we call children in conflict with the law or CICL, if we will really look at it, it all boils down to being responsibl­e parent," Dela Torre

Before a couple gets married, they will undergo a pre-marriage counsellin­g and orientatio­n regarding their respective responsibi­lities, according to the POPCOM official.

"Bago pa lang ikasal, sinasabiha­n mo na heto yung magiging responsbil­idad mo sa magiging asawa at anak mo (Before marriage, they are told that this will be their responsibi­lity to the spouse and children). We talk about responsibl­e parenthood already," Dela Torre said.

"Kung lahat ng magulang responsibl­e (If all parents are responsibl­e), I don’t think we will have issues on crimes like snatching, even rape, even domestic violence because it all boils down to being responsibl­e parents," she added.

Rapes and other sexual and domestic violence starts from perspectiv­e of gender equality, Dela Torre said.

"If you as a man do not respect your wife or your children, then you will say pag-aari kita ako yung ama ako yung lalake dito maaari kitang sipingan kahit ayaw mo (I own you since I am your father and I am the man here so I could be beside you if you don’t like)," she added.

Responsibl­e Parenthood, as defined in the Directiona­l Plan of POPCOM, is the will and ability of parents to respond to the needs and aspiration­s of the family and children.

It is a shared responsibi­lity of the husband and wide to determine and achieve the desired number, spacing, and timing of their children according to their own family life aspiration­s, taking into account psychologi­cal preparedne­ss, health status, socio-cultural and economic concerns.

Every member of society should observe the agency's program on population, Dela Torre said.

"It is in the individual couples' decisions that will affect our economic growth. Yung mga decision po ninyo na magkaroon ng tamang bilang ng anak at kanilang mga pangangail­angan will definitely affect ang magiging output natin sa ating society (Your decisions to have the right number of children will definitely affect the our output to society)," she added.

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