Phobia on Relationship among women

Leonila S. Dimatulac

For a woman, a fear of commitment could come from just having broken marriage. Sometimes, deep down there can be deeper issues like a male role model in their lives, such father, uncle, older brother in which females may have had issues with trustwise. Childhood emotional traumas and scars can be the worst to endure in life leaving huge issues of mistrust to the point where many forms of significant trust maybe at a premium. A woman may also have seen his father hurting her mother, hurting and deeply insensitive remarks, and even violence. Such very tragic even are all too commonplace and could leave very deep scars to the point where she may mistrust all prospective romantic partners so much that she may have great difficulty in committing to a relationship, always fearing and trusting commitments and relationship at large.

For women, fear of commitment may also stem from sometimes misguided anger and stereotypical beliefs that all males are the same. But perhaps she may just need the time to be alone, as she continues to sort things out in her mind, before embarking on something new and definitive.

We have grown so much of our infancy as human beings, now manifesting in different ways and means, but still part and parcel of our past. But through understanding these issues can come a better understanding of ourselves, be as male or female, our interactions not only with mates, but people and everything that goes on in between.

The author

is Teacher

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III at Bonifacio V. Romero High School