CRISTALLE BELO-PITT
What made you decide to move and live abroad?
It was two months into lockdown (May 2020) when Justin broached the idea of leaving the Philippines and travelling to his hometown, Adelaide. Siena was two months old and Hunter was about to turn two years old. At that time, the number of cases in the Philippines was rising rapidly, while there were zero cases in South Australia. We noticed that the once jolly and outgoing toddler we had was becoming introverted and anxious after being stuck in a condominium for two months. We knew that the lack of nature play and socialisation would eventually change his personality and that’s why we made the move to Australia. What was a six-month plan has extended to a little over a year.
Justin had the foresight to understand that the pandemic would not be over in months so making the decision to leave early on was important. We believe that moving to Australia was the best decision for our children—to be able to freely go out of the house, explore nature and socialise with others their age. It has also been good for me and Justin and our mental wellbeing.
What are the lessons you learnt from this move?
One word comes to mind—to flow. With the pandemic in the background, rules are always changing. One big lesson was to be open to change and adapt quickly.
I had to learn how to do all the household chores because getting full time help here is expensive. Thankfully, Justin loves to cook so I leave that to him. It’s good to know that we can be independent as a family unit. I was also able to immerse myself in Justin’s life and upbringing. I’m also happy that the kids are able to experience Australia since it is half of who they are.
What’s the most fulfilling part of this move?
I didn’t realise how much we took “freedom” for granted prior to this pandemic. The most fulfilling part is enjoying the freedom to be out, to socialise, to interact with nature, and to create experiences where the children can learn and grow. From cherry-picking to driving to the beach to playdates in different parks every week—these are memories that we will hold close. We are also able to create that bond with the children at a time of their lives where it matters most. We are able to give them love, guidance and security, an important stepping stone to having the confidence they need to flourish.