The Philippine Star

What example do you want to set for those around you?

- By MONS ROMULO

A t one time or another, unintentio­nally we catch ourselves saying one thing and doing another thing. But in the end it’s what people see us do that will create their impression of us. This is why we must set the best example not only in wanting to feel good about ourselves but more importantl­y for others to follow. We may feel no one notices the good deeds we do but, what the heck, just do it because doing the right thing is still the right path to take. And even if no one ever notices whatever positive things we have done, count it as points to get to heaven because Someone up there is definitely watching us. So go ahead: walk the talk and do what’s right all the time!

Caloocan Rep. Mitch Cajayon

Good leadership by example. As a public official, it is but natural that my constituen­ts, especially those who follow and support me, will unconsciou­sly learn my ways. Having been given the opportunit­y to serve in a leadership capacity, I am dutybound to make a positive contributi­on and an impact on the lives of other people. Dr. Albert Schweitzer said it best: “Example is not the main thing in influencin­g others … it is the only thing.” That is why I want to set a fine example of leadership by “walking the talk” and avoiding double standards. I want to set for those around me an example of having a firm commitment to do the right thing, which is what good leadership is about. Former Kawit Cavite Vice Mayor Emilio “Orange” Aguinaldo IV

Helping each other. Koleen Davila Palaganas, marketing and communicat­ions

director, Habitat for Humanity

I hope that my life sets an example that every person, no matter what background he or she comes from, could give their share in making a bit of heaven on earth; by being a generous soul and by being conscious that in every little bit we do, it also benefits others. Former Governor Grace Padaca

The exam - ple of being still even in the most difficult of circumstan­ces because I know that my God is God; the example of being brave even against the most vicious of opponents because what is right will always prevail anyway; and the example of not growing weary even in the midst of the worst of burnouts because the seeds have been planted. No good thing is ever left unrewarded. Ino Manalo, director, National Archives

I really hope that through my example people will see that loving our country means taking care of the small things such as throwing trash in the proper receptacle­s and not in the streets or turning off the lights when leaving the room.

Sari Yap, founder and CEO, One Mega Group Inc.

I try to live “positivity,” the thinking that nothing that happens is inherently good or bad. It’s how you respond that matters, and therefore, you can turn all circumstan­ces into a good thing. Ever since I started thinking that way, the silver lining behind every “bad” experience is almost immediatel­y apparent, and has made for lesser stress levels. So I always tell people, especially those I work with, about this “beauty” secret, in the hopes that it can help them, too.

Customs Commission­er Ruffy Biazon

The example I want to show to those around me is the balance between fulfilling my obligation­s as a public official and my responsibi­lities as head of my family. But it should also be known that between the two, I would give premium to shepherdin­g my family. In the Bible, 1 Timothy 3:4-5, it says that before a leader can take charge of public office, he must first be a good leader of his family. I believe that everyone has that obligation to be good family leaders because we are all called to raise children to be upright and our families to be solid. Not all are given the privilege to lead in public but everyone is called to lead their families. Therefore, I would like to set an example of that to those around me.

Ria CarrionDom­ingo, AVP, Product Loyalty Marketing, Philippine Airlines

“Not the cry but the flight of the wild duck leads the flock to fly and to follow.” This Chinese proverb sums up the principle that I adhere to in dealing with and in influencin­g the people around me, be they my family, friends, or the people I work with. Yes, I believe that there is no better way to inspire them than to model the way. This means setting high standards for myself first before expecting these from them; and willingly demonstrat­ing through my actions that I have complete confidence in the outcome of our endeavors.

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