‘Remember others, show God is love’

Thinking of how to make God’s presence felt this Holy Week? Lingayen-Dagupan Archbishop Socrates Villegas has some suggestions.

In his reflection “Should you blindly follow those Holy Week traditions?” Villegas said Catholics should remember that Holy Week is a time to remember what Christ has done for humanity. It is also a time to show gratitude to God.

“Let the memory of God’s mercy sink in without any compulsion to do something. Just relish his mercy and bask in the radiance of his love. During Holy Week, tell God ‘thank you’,” he said.

During the season of Lent, Catholics are expected to fast on Ash Wednesday and on Good Friday.

The prelate said while fasting is a good way to observe Lent, but without concern it is nothing.

“Prayer is good, but without remembering others and laying aside personal comfort, it is just an ego trip. Helping the poor and giving alms are good, but if you do it for show or to get a ‘feel good’ reward later, it is just a noisy bell,” he said.

As for those who are fond of picking the flowers from a carosa (carriage) that they later place on the altar in their homes, he said, “Why don’t you bring flowers instead to a home for abandoned seniors and brighten the faces of lonely grandparents with the love you bring?”

“Must the face look sour and gloomy during Holy Week? Love begins with a smile. Make someone happy this Holy Week. Make someone feel loved. With your smile, show that God is love,” he added.

The archbishop also said going on Visita Iglesia is a good way to observe the Holy Week. But aside from going to seven churches, he suggested that Catholics visit seven patients in the charity ward of a hospital and bring them food.