Expat Living (Singapore)

Death & Dignity:

Did you know that in many cultures it’s considered important to have a portrait of the deceased displayed at a funeral? Sadly, not everybody has such a picture when they die. These people are stepping in to help.

- BY MELINDA MURPHY

The last portrait

Portraits at funerals are a part of many cultures – including here in Asia. These images can even be the source of superstiti­ons. The portrait is considered so important to some people that there are photograph­y studios in certain countries that do nothing else but take portraits for funerals. And often it’s the person nearing the end of their time who chooses the portrait they want to represent themselves at their final goodbye.

Unfortunat­ely, not everybody has a portrait for their funeral. Some families simply don’t have the money for one, or perhaps they just never took the time to have a nice photo taken. This can be distressin­g not only for the loved ones, but for those who know the end is near.

It doesn’t have to be that way. The people at Flying Home believe that everyone deserves a dignified send-off, and that a portrait photo is an important component of a dignified funeral. So, when they heard about an initiative started by their parent company, Ang Chin Moh Group, they knew they wanted to be a part of it – a way of giving back to the community.

It all started when the St Andrews Nursing Home invited staff from Ang Chin Moh Group to a small memorial service for residents who had passed away. The nurses shared fond memories of the departed as several of those who passed didn’t have family members in attendance. In fact, some had lived in the nursing home for years without any family nearby. Turns out, many of these people didn’t have a nice photograph for the funeral. When the folks at Ang Moh Group learned this, they decided to do something about it by setting up photo shoots for the elderly.

Here’s how it works: when one of the nursing homes reaches out, the team arrives complete with a hairdresse­r and corporate photograph­er. Volunteers help with makeup and clothes, and work to keep the atmosphere light. They make a real fuss over the photo subjects, something the elderly enjoy. After all, who doesn’t like a makeover and a photoshoot?

Once the photos are taken, they are edited and the family receives a digital copy – a special memory they’ll have for years to come. What’s more, the all-important portrait will be present at the final send-off – the person who is dying can even choose the photo they prefer.

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