MARRIED FOR 11 TO 15 YEARS

FREQUENCY OF SEX: Twice a month “My hubby of 14 years enjoys sex and wishes we could do it more often. We’ve slowed down to once or twice a month but that hasn’t affected the way we feel about each other. We love cuddling and kissing in bed, and still hold hands when we’re out.” “My husband and I have sex more often than my friends and their spouses do. Maybe it’s because we prioritise it. Sex is important to me; I don’t want my sex life to dry up because I can’t manage my time or am too tired to be intimate with my man. My sex life is active and healthy, and I’m proud of it.” “With four young children, it’s not easy nding the time or energy for sex, but my husband and I still manage to be intimate about two or three times a month. This is usually when the kids are asleep or at their grandparents’ place on Sundays, and my hubby and I have some time to ourselves. It’s the only opportunity for us to spend quality time together and rekindle our bond. Sometimes, one of us might want it more often and the other obliges. But usually, our sex drives are very much in sync.”