Herworld (Singapore)

3 TIPS FOR GETTING PEOPLE TO OPEN UP

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BE GENUINELY INTERESTED

“This starts with humbling yourself. Remember that everyone has a unique perspectiv­e to share, even if you may not agree with their opinions.”

LISTEN ACTIVELY

“It really helps when you remind yourself that the person you’re speaking to has a valid opinion that you should respect. Also, it’s putting out the right body language, like maintainin­g eye contact.”

CULTIVATE CURIOSITY

“Even if someone is talking about something you don’t have any knowledge or interest in, you can still learn a thing or two from them that might be useful, or that might help you become closer to them. People embody a wealth of informatio­n and experience­s, and it’d be a shame not to tap into that.”

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