STOP THE BLAME GAME

Bona - - Letters To The Editor -

It is easy to blame peo­ple for your prob­lems, and think that those you have are the big­gest be­cause they are the cen­tre of your uni­verse. But, you for­get that there is only one uni­verse – the one you cre­ate. We all have an in­cred­i­ble ca­pac­ity to make bad de­ci­sions and mis­takes, and it is okay. Peo­ple can only hurt you when you can­not sus­tain your in­ner self through tri­als and tribu­la­tions. In­stead of re­sent­ing mis­for­tunes and seek­ing to ex­cuse your own lim­i­ta­tions, face the facts. You are ei­ther stronger than the prob­lem and can solve it in­tel­li­gently, or it is stronger than you, mean­ing that the so­lu­tion is to in­crease your own strength. So, never blame oth­ers for your prob­lems.

Dineo Makala, Bronkhorstspruit

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