Cape Argus

#NotAllMen need apologise

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I WATCHED the news and this gentleman with dark glasses and his hand in his one pocket was making a national statement that, on behalf of all men, he is apologisin­g for the crime wave that is mostly affecting women and children.

The programme then showed a man in the street, Jan Allemans, also stating that he would tell his sons to respect and treat their wives and girlfriend­s with love and respect, and not with violence.

Now here is where I jump off that roll call as a man. I apologise for nothing because I am not the cause of crime, whether of a minor or violent nature against any women and children.

The people who should be apologisin­g are President Jacob Zuma for not implementi­ng the ultimate sentence – the death penalty – for those men found guilty of violent crime against women and children;Minister of Police Fikile Mbalula, for not boosting police resources and heeding the call to bring back the specialise­d units; those in the justice systems who allow lenient bail, lenient sentences, lenient parole releases; those in the correction­al system who make our prisons seem like hotels or holiday homes in comparison to hard labour like it was in the old days; those people who cover up crimes committed by family and friends; those members of the public who turn a blind eye and don’t report crimes; those in the media who do not have a dedicated space on their channels or pages dealing with crime; and, last, those men who have committed these despicable crimes.

You should stop it and you must apologise. Yes, these are the people who must apologise to the nation, not me – no sir.

A quote by Abaida Mahmood should get you thinking: “There are two kinds of males: men who stand up for women’s rights and cowards. The choice is yours.” KEITH ALFRED ADOLPH BLAKE Ottery

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