Cape Argus

BEWARE: DANGEROUS COCKTAILS

- MURRAY WILLIAMS

DECISIONS, decisions…

This is about people. And perhaps our public life, too.

To make the best choices, it’s useful to be in a healthy frame of mind.

Not under the influence. Especially not mind-altering toxins that do just that: alter our minds.

The most dangerous ingredient­s, together, make up a lethal cocktail guaranteed to leave a person, or a nation, paralytic. Down and out. Or, worse: poisoned or dead.

Such as:

Toxic inebriator 1: Denial Toxic inebriator 2: Cognitive dissonance

Toxic inebriator 3: Stockholm Syndrome

Wikipedia explains:

Denial, in ordinary English usage, is asserting that a statement or allegation is not true. The same word, and also abnegation (German: verneinung), is used for a psychologi­cal defence mechanism postulated by psychoanal­yst Sigmund Freud, in which a person is faced with a fact that is too uncomforta­ble to accept and rejects it instead, insisting that it is not true despite what may be overwhelmi­ng evidence.

The subject may use: simple denial: deny the reality of the unpleasant fact altogether; minimisati­on: admit the fact but deny its seriousnes­s; projection: admit both the fact and seriousnes­s but deny responsibi­lity by blaming somebody or something else.

Toxic ingredient 2: In the field of psychology, cognitive dissonance is the mental discomfort (psychologi­cal stress) experience­d by a person who simultaneo­usly holds two or more contradict­ory beliefs, ideas, or values. This discomfort is triggered by a situation in which a person’s belief clashes with new evidence perceived by that person (like caring deeply about one’s health, but still smoking – despite knowing you’ll die sooner).

Toxic ingredient 3: Stockholm syndrome is a condition that causes hostages to develop a psychologi­cal alliance with their captors as a survival strategy during captivity. These alliances, resulting from a bond formed between captor and captives during intimate time spent together, are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims.

This term was first used by foreign media in 1973 when four hostages were taken during a bank robbery in Stockholm, Sweden. The hostages defended their captors after being released and would not agree to testify in court against them.

There are many more dangerous toxic inebriator­s to avoid at all costs, guaranteed to sicken one: like racial solidarity – loyalty to people your own skin colour, for no other reason; ignorance – taking crucial decisions without making sure of the facts; and supporting people who refuse point blank to be accountabl­e.

Think carefully. Take sober decisions, with a clear mind. Don’t be captured by dangerous dependenci­es.

And remember the French philosophe­r Joseph le Maistre’s warning: “Every nation gets the government it deserves.”

Think carefully. Take sober decisions, with a clear mind. Don’t be captured by dangerous dependenci­es. And remember a French philosophe­r’s warning: “Every nation get the government it deserves.”

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