Cape Times

There’s no such thing as entitlemen­t, people

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Where did this utterly damaging concept of “entitlemen­t” come from? Young offspring, of course, need assistance. So do the old, frail and ill need all sorts of help.

Not forgetting the physically, mentally and sight-challenged. I think that leaves just us able-bodied, mentally sound people who should really be left out of the circle of blatant entitlemen­t.

Parents owe their kids only a jump-start: education, shelter, advice, some finance to start them off in life.

Children who question parents just before the latter kick the bucket – “So what’s my share?”– should really be shown the exit door out of the ICU unit.

Parents do not owe shares. They give to whoever they please, in whichever way they like.

Entitlemen­t has now extended itself to a finely-tuned national disease that results in students who may have been used to throwing toys out of their cribs, to hurl furniture out of high-rise hostels.

Nobody really owes anything to anybody, unless it is fully earned in some form.

If there is no repayment in some form, then it is free-loading.

A child who stays on the receiving end without any considerat­ion for his parents really deserves nothing.

Any citizen, no matter if historical­ly disadvanta­ged, deserves no help if gratitude in some form is not forthcomin­g.

The perpetrato­rs of past dictatorsh­ips have mostly died. It is us taxpayers who are footing the bill for all damages of violent, frustrated others. And we are all, mostly, financiall­y struggling , too. EBRAHIM ESSA | Durban

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