How can my partner and I make kissing feel exciting again?
1 Have a ‘sex day’, when all that’s on the menu is lots of nudity and kisses all over each other’s bodies. ‘ There’s this idea that if something is planned, it can’t feel spontaneous – and that’s not true,’ says clinical sexologist Dawn Michael.
2 Next time your SO is making coffee in the morning, hug them from behind unexpectedly and start nibbling on their ear before turning their face towards yours.
3 Take a detour to a secluded spot on your drive home. Run the tip of your tongue in a circle around their lips before pressing it into their mouth.
The dude I just started seeing says he wants to finish on my face. How do I respond?
1 He probably got the idea from watching porn, says Michael. Bring him back to reality by asking, ‘Why do you think I would want to do that?’
2 Say, ‘If there ever comes a point when I’m interested in that, I’ll let you know. Until then, let’s try this.’ Then steer him in a direction that you’re more comfortable with.
3 Shut him down with a joke, such as, ‘I’d prefer a more skinfriendly facial at a salon, thanks.’ (For real, though: his semen can sting if it gets in your eyes.)
What’s a fresh foreplay move I can try on my guy while we’re on holiday?
1 Take his hand at dinner and put it under your skirt, then whisper in his ear all the bad,