4 Date Moves He’ll Re­mem­ber

Cosmopolitan (South Africa) - - LOVE - MATTHEW HUSSEY

1 Make con­ver­sa­tion with other peo­ple.

It’s sexy for a man to see a woman be charm­ing with oth­ers. Im­por­tant: do this mostly with other women, or it might come across as …lirt­ing.

2 Sug­gest a ‘date in­ter­lude’.

Yes, you want him to have a plan. But you can also men­tion the taco place that he has to try. Guys like to lead, but it’s fun when you can help add to the date. It says you’re a good team player.

3 Give him an early com­pli­ment.

Dates can feel like a poker game, with each player wait­ing to show their hand. In­stead, give him a com­pli­ment ASAP – like how great his shirt looks – to cre­ate an in­stant sense of com­fort.


De­fer the af­ter­hours drink.

Fin­ish on a high and leave him want­ing more. Po­litely de­cline the ‘one last cock­tail’ o‘er, but ar­range the next meet-up. This will keep the …lame burn­ing un­til he sees you again.

Newspapers in English

Newspapers from South Africa

© PressReader. All rights reserved.