Creating good men by mentoring young boys
Dudu Makhubo is a member of a youth club in Thembelihle that focuses on educating teens and young adults so they can be empowered to play a more active role in uplifting their communities. By
As a mentor to kids in the township of Thembelihle, Dudu Makhubo feels passionately that her energy should be focused on the young boys in her community.
“I think that society forgets about the boy child and the boy child is very important to the community. If you raise one boy right it means that you could be avoiding crime, rape and all the other bad things that can be done by men. If you can educate a boy with the mindset that they can make a change to society then it makes a huge difference.”
Through her voluntary work as a member of the community youth club, she believes that she has a platform to deal with toxic masculinity, drugs and alcohol abuse. This, says Makhubo, is achieved through education.
The youth club is basically a mentorship programme for 15 kids in the Thembelihle community. It is overseen and supported by the Ahmed Kathrada Foundation. The kids are aged 15 to 25 and their mentors are 26 to 35. It is the mentors who decide how to empower the community through the younger members.
In Thembelihle their focus is on education so they support their kids through an afterschool maths and science programme, encouraging them to attend the free classes and helping them when they need it. They also take the kids to a variety of community events and show them how they can play a more active role in the community.
“Whatever it is that we do it is about empowering their minds and changing the narrative that if you are from an informal settlement you cannot be educated.”
Activism has always been in Makhubo’s family. Her mother has been a very active member of the community since the youth movements of 1976, opening up her house as the gathering point for PAC meetings during the liberation struggle. She later became a vocal opponent to several attempts to forcibly remove people from Thembelihle.
“We want to see a change in the community. Our parents have done what they could but it’s up to us whether we continue from where they stopped or leave things as they are. As the youth we have the power to make things happen.”
It seems that many young people in South Africa feel so disenfranchised that it renders them powerless even to conceive of being part of a positive change in the country. Even at such a young age, Makhubo already recognises that, through education, even the smallest change that she can make in another person’s life can have the power to brighten their future and that of the community around them.
We want to see change in the community... As the youth we have the power to make things happen
This story is one of a series of articles produced by The Actionists to highlight the incredible work of organisations and activists across South Africa in their pursuit of justice and equal rights for all.