We are on our 6th Issue and our 6th month of 2018, ladies and gentlemen. I carry with me all the lessons I have learnt in May. Some came to me as disappointments, but most came as blessings. I am that one person whose passion lies on making sure that everyone around is peacefully happy. With me having such confidence that I made everyone happy and was appreciated by many, I randomly found myself drowning in the disappointment and asked myself questions that I had no answers to.
This note may be somehow personal, but it is what I would love to share with you and is dedicated to all my friends. Through friendship, I have taken paths that paved me to being a focused person I am today. Through friendship, my spiritual life was revived and my belief level has gone up. Friendship is not always about clubbing, gossip and materialistic things, but being there for each other spiritually and emotionally. It is a form of interpersonal bond than association.
Throughout the previous years I had many friends and now that I have decided to choose whom to associate myself with and my level of maturity growing, half of those I was close to walked out of my life. As I always tell people that I never live with regrets, yes I do not regret not trying to bring them back into my circle for I feel at ease now. Certain friendships are not doing okay due to secrets and bad mouthing whilst one claims to be a true friend, but we just refuse to cut them off because we feel that we have been best friends for so many years even though we are seeing the downfalls.
It is really important to get to a point where you are able to analyse situations and actually make a decision that will be fair to yourself. It may end that you become the one to blame for the failure of your friendship with someone because of your reactions after you have analysed the whole situation. There is no need to explain or try to prove that you are not guilty at all. Sometimes it is okay to just let people talk and spread negative rumours about you. They may start making jokes about your personal crisis that you shared with them, as they kind of know what shuts you down. That is absolute immaturity. Someone who talks bad about the same person he/she hangs around with, is not worth your trust. Do you know what is being said about you when you are not around?