100 21 Sex fantasies women have that are totally normal Bring your fantasies to life

ORAL SEX

You might view giving oral sex as a submissive service, for example, or a dominant act of taking what’s yours. Meanwhile, receiving oral might make you feel like a pampered queen in her throne or a thoroughly ravaged snack.

SEX IN PUBLIC

The thrill of sex in a public or semi-public place has long been a popular fantasy: dark alleys, public toilets and cinemas are common choices. The thrill of getting caught is one commonly cited reason, as is a general interest in exhibitionism. This can be a risky endeavour for your criminal record and for the wellbeing of passersby, so it’s probably one that’s

better left a fantasy.

SEX IN AN UNUSUAL LOCATION

Even if you’re fantasising about the same old sex acts you always fall back on, out-of-theordinary settings like a hotel room, a sex club or the kitchen counter can heat up your imaginings.

PEGGING

Pegging is where a woman has anal sex with someone using a strap-on. If you’re intrigued, talk to your SO to see if he/she’s down with this type of get down.

BEING DOMINATED

INFIDELITY

You can be perfectly happy with your partner and still nd the idea of cheating on them exciting. But it’s important to keep in mind that wanting to imagine this type of sex doesn’t necessarily mean you want to have this type of sex. If you do, maybe some form of ethical nonmonogamy is an avenue you should explore?

SENSORY DEPRIVATION

Wearing a blindfold keeps you blissfully unaware of what your partner is about to do to you – and putting one on someone else helps you maintain your control over them.

DOMINATING

SOMEONE

It can be incredibly hot to call the shots during sex, especially in a culture that systematically tries to strip women of our power, both in and out of the bedroom.

BONDAGE

From impromptu tools, like neck ties, to more intense bondage scenarios, the thought of being restrained (or restraining someone else) is incredibly hot to many.

You can picture something as subtle as a trusted partner holding you down by the wrists while they kiss you, all the way up to extreme BDSM involving pain or humiliation.

EXHIBITIONISM

Maybe you fantasise about stripping for a partner, performing in a porn ick or masturbating for an agog

audience. It’s hot to feel hot.

SEX WITH AN EX

In your fantasy life, you can revisit the excellent ex you’ll (hopefully) never hook up with again, without any of the emotional drama that would arise if you tried.

LESBIAN SEX

VOYEURISM

On the ip-side, watching other people get it on can be a massive turn-on. Maybe you imagine peeking at a couple boning in a clothing store’s tting room or watching a boundary pushing BDSM scene in a dungeon.

SEX WITH A STRANGER

It’s potentially hot to think that someone would be attracted to you only for your body and your sex appeal, since they don’t know anything else about you. And when you’re done, throw your clothes back on. It might be the mild frisson of taboo still attached to same-sex interactions, or it might be that lesbian sex tends to focus on the things that actually get most women off: oral sex, ngering, and other clitoral-focused

activities.

SEX WITH A PROFESSOR

Being the teacher’s pet is a sexy fantasy, even if you’re all grown up and have been for awhile. Plus, professors are smart – and don’t even get me started on tweed blazers with elbow patches.

SEX WITH SOMEONE

YOUNGER

They probably have more sexual energy than an older person, so you can go at it

like rabbits for days.

ANAL SEX

Though anal feels good for many women, it also comes with a host of cultural taboos that add to its forbidden hotness. You don’t have to ascribe to these judgments to be able to enjoy them in your fantasy.

SEX WITH A CELEBRITY

It’s often easier and less complicated to picture your fave celeb than a stranger or someone you actually know in real life. Plus, they’ve chosen you over all their other fans.

ROLE PLAY

If you struggle to let your inner sex kitten loose, sometimes imagining yourself in a speci c role can help. Does a nurse-andpatient fantasy get your

gears turning?

GROUP SEX

Many women fantasise about threesomes, foursomes and ‘moresomes’. These ambitious trysts might go better in fantasy than in reality, because no one ever has to feel left out or confused about what they’re supposed to be doing.

21 SENSUAL MASSAGE

It may be that the relaxation and slow, calming movements prep your body and mind for heights of arousal. Once you’re all oily, the stage is set for sinfully intense

ecstasy.