Local police warns: domestic violence doesn’t take a holiday
The Christmas holiday period is a time when families traditionally get together and should be a joyous time for all.
However, due to many stresses, it can also be a time when domestic problems come to a head, leading to threats of, or actual, domestic violence.
Graaff-reinet SAPS have issued some pointers and advice for anyone who feels that they may get be vulnerable to such a situation. It should be noted that domestic violence can take many forms, including sexual said Rodney Disa, one of Allistair's teachers. "He was very curious and willing to work hard - both in the class and outside, always keeping a positive attitude. He was truly a shining star in his class." Allistair hopes to inspire the young learners of Umasizakhe, to help them realise that they too can achieve the goals they have set for themselves if they stay dedicated and apply themselves to their studies.
The Nqweba school community and his proud parents wish Allistair well with his studies and all the best for his future. abuse, physical abuse or assault, damage to property, economic abuse by withholding money, and stalking.
Emotional abuse, with degrading or humiliating behaviour such as repeated insults, and any other controlling or abusive behaviour which poses a threat to a person’s safety or well-being, can leave no visible marks but be equally harmful.
Anyone who is being abused should apply for a protection order at their nearest police station or magistrate’s court, or lay a criminal charge at the police station. A protection order is then issued by the court ordering the person to stop the abuse. An interim protection order can also be issued at any time of the day or night for protection in an emergency.
If an abuser disobeys a protection order, this should be reported to SAPS immediately. If the victim is in immediate danger the abuser will be arrested, otherwise he or she will be given a notice to appear in court the next day.
Potential victims are recommended to have a crisis plan ready. If they already have a protection order against their abuser, they should make sure that close friends and family have a copy of the order. Some money and a set of clothes should be packed and kept in a safe place, such as a trusted neighbour’s home, and essential documents and bank cards should be kept in an easily-accessible place in case a quick departure is needed.