Sowetan

Boys also clueless about sexuality

- Lindokuhle Ngobeni

I READ on Wednesday Thabiso’s rants regarding the vagina and how our sisters will go to great lengths to make it tight.

Dear Thabs, boys don’t talk too. For example, a boy was taught not to cry, no matter how painful a situation is. Why are penis enlarging creams thriving?

When I read agony aunt articles in magazines or newspapers, I always hear of men complainin­g about the size of their member – not asking how they can pleasure their women.

Our moms talk to our sisters about boys, while we are left to learn it in the street. All this pervert and chauvinism we display is self-taught from street corners and under trees, where we meet to play dice and cards.

No father taught us that. If you didn’t know, boys are as uneducated as girls when it comes to sexuality. We just assume and pretend to know everything and, luckily, our sisters think we are doing it right.

If we are doing things right, why is it that so many girls are complainin­g about us not sending them to orgasm? We don’t know a thing about it except our own orgasm, which comes in many forms, including wet dreams. Maybe it’s high time, my dear publisher, that you gather informatio­n to publish about boys’ and girls’ sexuality.

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