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If the greatest title in the world is being a father then Kesval “Kay” Moonsamy is a richly blessed man, and each Father’s Day he’s reminded of his blessings. Today will be no different. The 90-year-old struggle hero is the father of six, the grandfather of 13 and a greatgrandfather to two.

“There is never a dull Father’s Day,” he said in appreciation of the mutual love and caring he and his children shared.

However, during his 25 years in exile, Moonsamy was forced to do fatherly duty from a long distance.

“I parented by letter, keeping our bond alive. We sent each other pictures and I always encouraged them to study and push for a better future.”

Moonsamy’s daughter, Ragini Naidoo, said they didn’t celebrated Fathers Day, while their father was absent.

“I can’t remember us doing anything in particular, but we knew he loved us even though he was away.”

Since the struggle days are over, Father’s Day is a big celebration in the Moonsamy home.

“We normally meet at my daughter’s place. We have great times together and reminisce about the past. The gifts are always a surprise though,” Moonsamy said.

Granddaughter Talisa Appadu said it was an opportunity to spend quality time with her grandfather and make him happy.

“I remember him asking us to let him do the things that he was not able to do for his children.

“We don’t speak about the time lost, but instead express gratitude for the years we have had with our grandfather,” Appadu said.

Naidoo said: “He has taught me courage, how to lead by example and live life to the full, which has provided a solid foundation for my life.”

Moonsamy encouraged other fathers to be actively involved in the lives of their children. “Parents set the base for everything in their children’s lives. It is a great responsibility that I still take seriously, and I call on all fathers to do the same,” he said.