The Star Early Edition

Parents must learn new ways

- Vosloorus

PARENTS will abuse their children and justify it with lines such as “that’s how we were raised and we turned out fine” or “that’s what the Bible says”.

Abusing children physically, verbally or emotionall­y in the hope of disciplini­ng them and wanting obedient children is an outdated practice.

Parents who fail to recognise that are lazy to do the mental work that breaks down these toxic generation­al patterns that were passed down to them.

They are lazy to learn healthy ways to communicat­e with their children and they are big bullies to their children.

If parents don’t recognise these patterns and continue to harm their kids, they will have strained relationsh­ips with their children.

KUTLOANO MAKGORO |

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